i agree with keeping a good conditioner on it, but in my opinion wearing a swim cap will definetly keep down on the damage and breakage that occurs with ethnic hair breakage from the chlorine. As african-americans, we do not need to shampoo our hair daily. This strips the natural oils from our hair. That is why we do it once or twice every two weeks. If you will be in the pool frequently, I suggest the swim cap.I am training for a triathelon that includes swimming.Any advice on how to keep a black girls hair conditioned
Condition it before you get in the pool, it'll act as a wall between your hair and the chlorine...don't wash it out y'know, just put it on your hair before you get in the pool. Don't be afraid to really get it all through your hair.I am training for a triathelon that includes swimming.Any advice on how to keep a black girls hair conditioned
Try the new pantene for women of color..they have the whole line and i think the moisterizer will be good for when ur training,,and it keeps it from drying..
Cholesterol usually works for me.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
I am coaching 6, 7, and 8 year olds...any advice on how to coach them?
I want to teach them the basics...any advice????I am coaching 6, 7, and 8 year olds...any advice on how to coach them?
Ok firs have them play knock out. Dribble knock out. teach em how to dribble as low as they can go. teach em how to rebound. teach em how to shoot. got them in layup linesI am coaching 6, 7, and 8 year olds...any advice on how to coach them?
teach them all of the basic fundamentals...passing, lay-ups, dribbling, shooting, etc...don't have them run any big plays because they will probly get confused easily!
Keep it simple. Don't stress out about doing everything right. You want to make sure that they enjoy the experience. They have plenty of years to worry about doing everything right. If they don't enjoy it they won't come back.
As far as skills, I would work on dribbling, passing and catching, and introduce the concept of teamwork. Show them the proper way to shoot, but don't worry about if their technique isn't 100% correct.
make it fun for yourself as well. If you don't enjoy it, the kids will know.
First, I would suggest lots of ball handling and defensive drills. A player that can play defense and handle the basketball can be successful at almost any level. Second, I would recommend emphasizing the correct shooting form because your players are at an age where they develop terrible habits. Third, emphasize teamwork over winning. Practices improve players when they're based on getting better, not being competitive. Your players have hundreds of games ahead of them, don't emphasize the winning and losing just yet. And finally, make sure they're always having fun. Players that fall in love with basketball will want to make themselves better and be easier to coach in the future. Hope all goes well.
I agree with Bobby McG. Teach them the basics, then go from there. Get involved if you can. They will like it better if you are on the floor with them, not yelling from the sidelines. And have fun. If you do, they will. At this age, that is what it is about. Good luck
a big stick always helps....lol
Ok firs have them play knock out. Dribble knock out. teach em how to dribble as low as they can go. teach em how to rebound. teach em how to shoot. got them in layup linesI am coaching 6, 7, and 8 year olds...any advice on how to coach them?
teach them all of the basic fundamentals...passing, lay-ups, dribbling, shooting, etc...don't have them run any big plays because they will probly get confused easily!
Keep it simple. Don't stress out about doing everything right. You want to make sure that they enjoy the experience. They have plenty of years to worry about doing everything right. If they don't enjoy it they won't come back.
As far as skills, I would work on dribbling, passing and catching, and introduce the concept of teamwork. Show them the proper way to shoot, but don't worry about if their technique isn't 100% correct.
make it fun for yourself as well. If you don't enjoy it, the kids will know.
First, I would suggest lots of ball handling and defensive drills. A player that can play defense and handle the basketball can be successful at almost any level. Second, I would recommend emphasizing the correct shooting form because your players are at an age where they develop terrible habits. Third, emphasize teamwork over winning. Practices improve players when they're based on getting better, not being competitive. Your players have hundreds of games ahead of them, don't emphasize the winning and losing just yet. And finally, make sure they're always having fun. Players that fall in love with basketball will want to make themselves better and be easier to coach in the future. Hope all goes well.
I agree with Bobby McG. Teach them the basics, then go from there. Get involved if you can. They will like it better if you are on the floor with them, not yelling from the sidelines. And have fun. If you do, they will. At this age, that is what it is about. Good luck
a big stick always helps....lol
I need advice on how to talk to my parents?
i am almost 17 and i dont have a vehicle or a job%26gt; my parents dont want me to get a job and i want a car. the problem is i am a cheerleader and i am invovled in a lot of extra curricular activities and i have to bum rides because my momsa busy ldoing her workI need advice on how to talk to my parents?
You could try to sell stuff online, like old books you don't read anymore and such. It wouldn't be much money but it would be a start.
Or find some random unimportant object and find some saint or state or whatever that it is vaguely shaped like and sell it on eBay for millions. Others have done it in the past with great results.I need advice on how to talk to my parents?
Try discussing this with your parents. What is more important to you: extra curricular activities or getting a car (which you will need a job to get)? Talk to your parents about getting a car, if they say they cant afford it then say you want to get a job so you can buy one. Negotiate and stick with your gut feelings. Parents might desuade you but talk to them before you do anything and make sure your heart/gut are both supporting what you choose to do. Good Luck!
You could talk to her just like you just posed the question to us. But maybe your mother doesn't want you to have a job because it might interfere with your studies. And sometimes it is hard for us to see our children grow-up. Sit like an adult and discuss it with her. Find out her exact reasons and see if there is anything that might change her mind. Maybe she will let you do it for a trial, try a couple weeks and re-evaluate the situation and see how both of you feel.
You should talk to her about a summer job.
see if you can get a job during the summer when you are less busy
Just tell them it wont hurt.Keeping it inside is goin cause u alot of pain.It will work out tell them if u could help ur mom on certain days.Hope it works out.new makeup
You could try to sell stuff online, like old books you don't read anymore and such. It wouldn't be much money but it would be a start.
Or find some random unimportant object and find some saint or state or whatever that it is vaguely shaped like and sell it on eBay for millions. Others have done it in the past with great results.I need advice on how to talk to my parents?
Try discussing this with your parents. What is more important to you: extra curricular activities or getting a car (which you will need a job to get)? Talk to your parents about getting a car, if they say they cant afford it then say you want to get a job so you can buy one. Negotiate and stick with your gut feelings. Parents might desuade you but talk to them before you do anything and make sure your heart/gut are both supporting what you choose to do. Good Luck!
You could talk to her just like you just posed the question to us. But maybe your mother doesn't want you to have a job because it might interfere with your studies. And sometimes it is hard for us to see our children grow-up. Sit like an adult and discuss it with her. Find out her exact reasons and see if there is anything that might change her mind. Maybe she will let you do it for a trial, try a couple weeks and re-evaluate the situation and see how both of you feel.
You should talk to her about a summer job.
see if you can get a job during the summer when you are less busy
Just tell them it wont hurt.Keeping it inside is goin cause u alot of pain.It will work out tell them if u could help ur mom on certain days.Hope it works out.
I need advice on how to not get caught by my mom?
ok. Friday my mom is taken me to my friend tara's gmas house. she thinks we are stayin there but really me and tara are goin to her and my boyfriends house. her gma lives down the street from our boyfriends. i need sum tips on sneaking out. tara's gma knows we're gonna stay over there and she dont care, but i need to make sure my mom dont find out. wat if she calls or she wants to stop by.. i jus need tips to make sure she will never find out. me and tara wanna stay the night wit our bfs. so wat should we do. i have a cellphone my mom will prolly call that but wat should i do. so she wont find outI need advice on how to not get caught by my mom?
Well 3 options
1.Do it and get caught...... by some chance u know
2.tell your mom your real plans and make it beliveable
3.Just don,t do itI need advice on how to not get caught by my mom?
this is stupid.....why not wait till your old enough to not worry about what ';mommy'; says?
Tell her you are going to the movies, skating, and then bowling, etc. so if she stops by or calls and you're not there you have an excuse.
I know your Mother and I'm thinking of getting ahold of her today.
if ur mom calls your celly, go to the bathroom and answer, if she calls taras house, get tara's sibling to answer and say u 2 r busy
Remember there are always repercussions for your actions and words...lying and doing things you know you aren't supposed to have consequences...you may get away with it now, but it'll catch up with you eventually.
Think carefully about the risks and is it really worth it.
Just hang out at her grandma's for a little bit until your mom thinks that you are going to sleep. Once she thinks you're in bed, go over your boyfriend's. If she calls your cell phone, answer it and act like she woke you up. Or if the sleeping thing doesn't work just say you're watching movies or playing games or something. It's not that hard to get around as long as you play it off well. You have to be a good liar in order to get away with this stuff. But be careful, and I don't know how old you are but it seems like you're very young so you should be careful with sneaking out to your boyfriend's. I used to do this kind of stuff all the time, just be smart about it if you're going to do it at all.
Don't do things you shouldn't
tell your mom your friend gmas taking you all out to the movies and to dinner. or call her and tell her your friends gmas phone is not working. or just have tara's gmas tell your mom you two went to the mall to see a movie
Never good to lie....there's a reason your NOT supposed to go over there!
Moms always find out. They might not always tell you that they know, but they KNOW!
dont do if if u know for sure u will get caught cause u prolly will
but what not to do is, if she calls her gma house, and she says u wernt their, say u were in the shower at the time, just make up general but logical excuses if u get caught
Dont be dishonest. It never ends well. You will get caught no matter what you try and do. Parents have eyes in the backs of their heads.
dont do it i try it didnt work
Probably not posting this question on a public webpage would be a good start.
Better yet, try figuring out what you're going to tell your mom when you end up pregnant after staying at your boyfriends house.
Tell your mom if she calls your some where else and your friends gma just got onfussed cuase shes old
Well 3 options
1.Do it and get caught...... by some chance u know
2.tell your mom your real plans and make it beliveable
3.Just don,t do itI need advice on how to not get caught by my mom?
this is stupid.....why not wait till your old enough to not worry about what ';mommy'; says?
Tell her you are going to the movies, skating, and then bowling, etc. so if she stops by or calls and you're not there you have an excuse.
I know your Mother and I'm thinking of getting ahold of her today.
if ur mom calls your celly, go to the bathroom and answer, if she calls taras house, get tara's sibling to answer and say u 2 r busy
Remember there are always repercussions for your actions and words...lying and doing things you know you aren't supposed to have consequences...you may get away with it now, but it'll catch up with you eventually.
Think carefully about the risks and is it really worth it.
Just hang out at her grandma's for a little bit until your mom thinks that you are going to sleep. Once she thinks you're in bed, go over your boyfriend's. If she calls your cell phone, answer it and act like she woke you up. Or if the sleeping thing doesn't work just say you're watching movies or playing games or something. It's not that hard to get around as long as you play it off well. You have to be a good liar in order to get away with this stuff. But be careful, and I don't know how old you are but it seems like you're very young so you should be careful with sneaking out to your boyfriend's. I used to do this kind of stuff all the time, just be smart about it if you're going to do it at all.
Don't do things you shouldn't
tell your mom your friend gmas taking you all out to the movies and to dinner. or call her and tell her your friends gmas phone is not working. or just have tara's gmas tell your mom you two went to the mall to see a movie
Never good to lie....there's a reason your NOT supposed to go over there!
Moms always find out. They might not always tell you that they know, but they KNOW!
dont do if if u know for sure u will get caught cause u prolly will
but what not to do is, if she calls her gma house, and she says u wernt their, say u were in the shower at the time, just make up general but logical excuses if u get caught
Dont be dishonest. It never ends well. You will get caught no matter what you try and do. Parents have eyes in the backs of their heads.
dont do it i try it didnt work
Probably not posting this question on a public webpage would be a good start.
Better yet, try figuring out what you're going to tell your mom when you end up pregnant after staying at your boyfriends house.
Tell your mom if she calls your some where else and your friends gma just got onfussed cuase shes old
Plug and play game is only playing in black and white on TV. Any advice on how to change to colour please?
try checking the other auxilliary channels of the TV, it could be that you are on the wrong one so only getting part of the picture information
Need advice on how to balance husband and kids.?
okay, my husband thinks that we need a trial separation to try to remember the love, need and want of eachother. He says that we don't know eachother anymore. It's hard to get a babysitter so date night is out unless we have it at home. Advice please!!!Need advice on how to balance husband and kids.?
Sounds to me like your husband has a girlfriend or is looking for one. Men need attention and will find it where it is available. And it is not just sexual attention they crave, they also want to feel connected emotionally %26amp; intellectually.
1. Give the kids a bedtime and be firm about it. My daughter is 9 and goes to bed every night at 8:30 (Lights out and tv off at 9:30). Find a babysitter (quit making excuses!) your mom, his mom, a sister, cousin, neighbor - someone will watch your children for a couple hours every once in a while (at least 2 times a month!)
2. Once kids are in bed (EVERY NIGHT!!) make special time for your husband. Pour yourself a glass of wine and grab him a beer, TURN OFF THE TV!
3. Listen to him! Ask him to tell you about his day.
4. HAVE SEX WITH HIM!!! Even when you don't feel like it. MEN NEED SEX! It's a fact of life and if you do not have sex with him he will find someone who will.
5. Initiate sex...Don't make him be the one to beg for it all the time. If you are too tired at night then wake him up in the morning with a surprise.
6. Probably most important Quit B'ching all the time. Most men feel like they work all day (usually not a lot of fun) then they come home and their wife is nagging and complaining - then they simply find someone to turn to that just is a pleasure to be with - someone who is happy to see them, never complains, and makes love to them.
If you do not want to be a single mother then I suggest you take care of your husband. And in turn be sure he takes care of you! I would assume he still loves you and wants it to work out right now so you must change these things immediatly! A trial separation is an easy way to say he's done.Need advice on how to balance husband and kids.?
Trial separations are never there to remember the love, there are to see how you feel on your own, and more than likely, you are going to be taking care of the kids yourself during this 'trial separation' and he is going to be pretty happy! Don't do it. If he wants to stay together and there are major issues, see a marriage counselor. If there are minor issues, find a baby sitter and spend some time together, go out on dates, etc. Its not that hard to find a baby sitter.... parents of your children's friends, siblings, cousins, neices, nephews, grandparents, or put an ad in the paper if you need to.
Sometimes time apart is a good thing maybe for your marraige you should give it a try it is a good way of spicing things back up again
Your husband wants a divorce but is too coward to tell you so. How in Sam Hell is getting seperated supposed to bring you closer together? He is lying. You need to get a babysitter and have more time together as a couple---check your local highschool and see if they have a list of kids looking for sitter jobs. But at any rate, how is being apart going to help you remember the love you feel? I don't understand that---he is looking for seperation here. It sounds like marriage counseling is needed, but you need to get a sitter for that. Or, have date night at home! Feed the kids, put them to bed, and then make a nice dinner or get take out and talk, and then rent a movie or take it into the bedroom for some one on one. It's just never a good sign when a man wants a seperation. Caution!
Maybe you should try being alone TOGETHER before being alone apart? That would make sense. Why is your husband so quick to give up? Find a babysitter and spend a weekend away, see if that works. If not, kick his a$$ for giving up so easily.
Quit your job and be a SAHM.
He is stupid get some counselling it is common knowledge
the trial seperations cause more harm then good. You should never agree to this does he want this so he can have a fling without you getting pissed. I think you need to ask yourself this question why on earth does my husband want this. You do not say how old your kids are do they have friends and are they old enough for a sleep over?. maybe send to the grandparents for a couple of days a rekindle the flames of passion in you marriage.
FIND GOD AND PRAYER.
he wants another woman. wants the sep to do it and not feel guilty
sounds fishy to me..! trial seperation for what??? i mean come on with kids what the hell does he excpect...lol..
tell him to help u with the kids more..that would give u some free time!
it can't be THAT hard to get a sitter...ask friends, family, friends kids...your marriage did not end when you had kids, you still have to put each other first BEFORE the kids if you want them to grow up with married parents. And honestly I don't think a simple ';date night'; is going to save anything at this point if he's talking about separating. If you two do work it out I would suggest staying on top of things so that you don't need to separate to ';remember the love'; too often...
Sounds to me like your husband has a girlfriend or is looking for one. Men need attention and will find it where it is available. And it is not just sexual attention they crave, they also want to feel connected emotionally %26amp; intellectually.
1. Give the kids a bedtime and be firm about it. My daughter is 9 and goes to bed every night at 8:30 (Lights out and tv off at 9:30). Find a babysitter (quit making excuses!) your mom, his mom, a sister, cousin, neighbor - someone will watch your children for a couple hours every once in a while (at least 2 times a month!)
2. Once kids are in bed (EVERY NIGHT!!) make special time for your husband. Pour yourself a glass of wine and grab him a beer, TURN OFF THE TV!
3. Listen to him! Ask him to tell you about his day.
4. HAVE SEX WITH HIM!!! Even when you don't feel like it. MEN NEED SEX! It's a fact of life and if you do not have sex with him he will find someone who will.
5. Initiate sex...Don't make him be the one to beg for it all the time. If you are too tired at night then wake him up in the morning with a surprise.
6. Probably most important Quit B'ching all the time. Most men feel like they work all day (usually not a lot of fun) then they come home and their wife is nagging and complaining - then they simply find someone to turn to that just is a pleasure to be with - someone who is happy to see them, never complains, and makes love to them.
If you do not want to be a single mother then I suggest you take care of your husband. And in turn be sure he takes care of you! I would assume he still loves you and wants it to work out right now so you must change these things immediatly! A trial separation is an easy way to say he's done.Need advice on how to balance husband and kids.?
Trial separations are never there to remember the love, there are to see how you feel on your own, and more than likely, you are going to be taking care of the kids yourself during this 'trial separation' and he is going to be pretty happy! Don't do it. If he wants to stay together and there are major issues, see a marriage counselor. If there are minor issues, find a baby sitter and spend some time together, go out on dates, etc. Its not that hard to find a baby sitter.... parents of your children's friends, siblings, cousins, neices, nephews, grandparents, or put an ad in the paper if you need to.
Sometimes time apart is a good thing maybe for your marraige you should give it a try it is a good way of spicing things back up again
Your husband wants a divorce but is too coward to tell you so. How in Sam Hell is getting seperated supposed to bring you closer together? He is lying. You need to get a babysitter and have more time together as a couple---check your local highschool and see if they have a list of kids looking for sitter jobs. But at any rate, how is being apart going to help you remember the love you feel? I don't understand that---he is looking for seperation here. It sounds like marriage counseling is needed, but you need to get a sitter for that. Or, have date night at home! Feed the kids, put them to bed, and then make a nice dinner or get take out and talk, and then rent a movie or take it into the bedroom for some one on one. It's just never a good sign when a man wants a seperation. Caution!
Maybe you should try being alone TOGETHER before being alone apart? That would make sense. Why is your husband so quick to give up? Find a babysitter and spend a weekend away, see if that works. If not, kick his a$$ for giving up so easily.
Quit your job and be a SAHM.
He is stupid get some counselling it is common knowledge
the trial seperations cause more harm then good. You should never agree to this does he want this so he can have a fling without you getting pissed. I think you need to ask yourself this question why on earth does my husband want this. You do not say how old your kids are do they have friends and are they old enough for a sleep over?. maybe send to the grandparents for a couple of days a rekindle the flames of passion in you marriage.
FIND GOD AND PRAYER.
he wants another woman. wants the sep to do it and not feel guilty
sounds fishy to me..! trial seperation for what??? i mean come on with kids what the hell does he excpect...lol..
tell him to help u with the kids more..that would give u some free time!
it can't be THAT hard to get a sitter...ask friends, family, friends kids...your marriage did not end when you had kids, you still have to put each other first BEFORE the kids if you want them to grow up with married parents. And honestly I don't think a simple ';date night'; is going to save anything at this point if he's talking about separating. If you two do work it out I would suggest staying on top of things so that you don't need to separate to ';remember the love'; too often...
I need some advice on how to attract a guy from adults only?
I am 22 yrs old I'm in College right now and it's been a loong time since I last had a bf and I just don't know how to attract a guy anymore cause I been soo tressed out and busy with my schooling. and I really miss haveing a bf :O( their are a lot of cute guys at my school. I'm not an ugly girl but I need advice on how to attract a guy?I need some advice on how to attract a guy from adults only?
When he shows up out of nowhere, you will know what to do!I need some advice on how to attract a guy from adults only?
be you
be yourself
Guys are supposed to get you attracted to them--it's their responsibility.
We are all stressin' out so lose that excuse right away--there's always someone in worse shape than you.
I like ladies who keep themselves immaculately groomed--even someone who's just average looking will benefit from keeping themselves healthy and clean.
Show guys your privates!
Just be yourself! Putting on a front to attract a guy is not the way. Then when you do get together you will most likely go back to your normal self and the person that the guy was attracted to may not be the normal you!!!!! Be yourself. Plenty of guys out there that are probably interested, Shyness is a good quality
your not ugly and you should wear that dress around a few guys, that will jump start many guys attraction towards you :) :) :)
If you have been busy with school, than I am assuming you haven't had much time to keep up your appearance.
Here are some must things to do:
-Treat yourself to a spa day (it will make you feel better about yourself and in turn will attract guys to you)
-Buy a nice outfit. Something sexy but not slutty.
-Everyday, look in the mirror and say something good about yourself. (This will build confidence in you: which is a big turn on to me)
By doing those things you are loving yourself. No one can love you until you love yourself.
I personally are attracted to:
Confidence
Intelligence
Sex Appeal (not slutty, but revealing just enough to peak my interest)
What school do you go to, I might be interested. Just kidding. Good luck with everything.
Firstly, you look attractive in your photo, so that won't be a problem.
Secondly, shyness is an attractive quality to most men. It jus might be a hinderance if you want to meet shy men, because they may be intimidated to ask you out.
Here's a strategy you might try I will call the ';Damsel in Distress.';
Basically, you find a guy you like and you have an accident in front of him, such as drop your books or pop open your hood and stare at your motor in a confused manner like you're broke down.
If he is a gentleman, he will offer to help in some manner. Step 2 is stroke his ego like, ';It's so nice knowing there are still real men around who are knights in shining armor.'; Men love women who make us feel like heroes. You might add some subtle hints about your status like, ';Excuse my clumsiness. I'm still adjusting to the being single thing.'; You'll have him eating out of your hand. You can probably come up with your own lines that aren't as corny as mine, but you can see the general strategy.
It may seem deceptive, but he will be flattered that you went to the work to stage this first meeting. They probably aren't asking you out because they are presuming you are taken.
Be a Lady. The whole Paris Hilton slut image is going out big time. Guys like a woman with class. Classy perfume helps as well. Good Luck!
act real, be real. don't try to be someone you are not. Clothes baby!!! They do stuff for you. We like girls with style, positive attitude. Ohh..by the way ,I'm speaking for 'em good guys. The other type of guys you can attract ,by being sloty , dressing trashy
and doing crazy stuff. I hope you find the good type,
When he shows up out of nowhere, you will know what to do!I need some advice on how to attract a guy from adults only?
be you
be yourself
Guys are supposed to get you attracted to them--it's their responsibility.
We are all stressin' out so lose that excuse right away--there's always someone in worse shape than you.
I like ladies who keep themselves immaculately groomed--even someone who's just average looking will benefit from keeping themselves healthy and clean.
Show guys your privates!
Just be yourself! Putting on a front to attract a guy is not the way. Then when you do get together you will most likely go back to your normal self and the person that the guy was attracted to may not be the normal you!!!!! Be yourself. Plenty of guys out there that are probably interested, Shyness is a good quality
your not ugly and you should wear that dress around a few guys, that will jump start many guys attraction towards you :) :) :)
If you have been busy with school, than I am assuming you haven't had much time to keep up your appearance.
Here are some must things to do:
-Treat yourself to a spa day (it will make you feel better about yourself and in turn will attract guys to you)
-Buy a nice outfit. Something sexy but not slutty.
-Everyday, look in the mirror and say something good about yourself. (This will build confidence in you: which is a big turn on to me)
By doing those things you are loving yourself. No one can love you until you love yourself.
I personally are attracted to:
Confidence
Intelligence
Sex Appeal (not slutty, but revealing just enough to peak my interest)
What school do you go to, I might be interested. Just kidding. Good luck with everything.
Firstly, you look attractive in your photo, so that won't be a problem.
Secondly, shyness is an attractive quality to most men. It jus might be a hinderance if you want to meet shy men, because they may be intimidated to ask you out.
Here's a strategy you might try I will call the ';Damsel in Distress.';
Basically, you find a guy you like and you have an accident in front of him, such as drop your books or pop open your hood and stare at your motor in a confused manner like you're broke down.
If he is a gentleman, he will offer to help in some manner. Step 2 is stroke his ego like, ';It's so nice knowing there are still real men around who are knights in shining armor.'; Men love women who make us feel like heroes. You might add some subtle hints about your status like, ';Excuse my clumsiness. I'm still adjusting to the being single thing.'; You'll have him eating out of your hand. You can probably come up with your own lines that aren't as corny as mine, but you can see the general strategy.
It may seem deceptive, but he will be flattered that you went to the work to stage this first meeting. They probably aren't asking you out because they are presuming you are taken.
Be a Lady. The whole Paris Hilton slut image is going out big time. Guys like a woman with class. Classy perfume helps as well. Good Luck!
act real, be real. don't try to be someone you are not. Clothes baby!!! They do stuff for you. We like girls with style, positive attitude. Ohh..by the way ,I'm speaking for 'em good guys. The other type of guys you can attract ,by being sloty , dressing trashy
and doing crazy stuff. I hope you find the good type,
Have took peoples advice on how to change my avater picture to sakura but it still does not work HELP!?
i really want my avater to sakura and it does not work what do i do i have a 360 page toHave took peoples advice on how to change my avater picture to sakura but it still does not work HELP!?
make your sakura picture in 360 as your primary picture instead of your avatar
click my page
edit personal photos, change your primary picture and don't forget to save it
go back to My Q%26amp;A in yahoo answers
edit info
then choose 360 pictureHave took peoples advice on how to change my avater picture to sakura but it still does not work HELP!?
are you clicking the save all changes button ???
make your sakura picture in 360 as your primary picture instead of your avatar
click my page
edit personal photos, change your primary picture and don't forget to save it
go back to My Q%26amp;A in yahoo answers
edit info
then choose 360 pictureHave took peoples advice on how to change my avater picture to sakura but it still does not work HELP!?
are you clicking the save all changes button ???
I need to lose 1 inch off my waist in 3 days, already lost 1 in the last 5 any advice on how to get the last 1
I lost the other one by excercising and a extremely low calorie diet. How can i get this last inch off with only 3 days to go?I need to lose 1 inch off my waist in 3 days, already lost 1 in the last 5 any advice on how to get the last 1
work out alittle harderI need to lose 1 inch off my waist in 3 days, already lost 1 in the last 5 any advice on how to get the last 1
Only thing you can really do is to keep up what your doing and even after that.new makeup
work out alittle harderI need to lose 1 inch off my waist in 3 days, already lost 1 in the last 5 any advice on how to get the last 1
Only thing you can really do is to keep up what your doing and even after that.
Does anyone have advice on how to heal a broken heart?
Chocolate works for me ;)Does anyone have advice on how to heal a broken heart?
time heals all wounds, but first get to the bottom of why u have a broken heart-who was wrong and why/ be honest with yourself, and let the answers be your guide to moving on, it takes time and it will be hard, but u wil heal--good luck and may your heart never be broken again.Does anyone have advice on how to heal a broken heart?
well 1 st all I know what is like to have a broken Heart and i feel bad for you and let me tell you it will take time to heal and Pray about it and what most LDS people would do is they go to talk to their Bishop in their Wards and it dose help for me I go see Bishop Hanks one a month and it dose help to talk about it i hope that would help
a comfy pillow, some sad/angry music, and a lot of chocolate.
Everyone wants a magical spell...or should I say everyone wishes for a magical spell. But the best thing for a broken heart is time.
No sad music...no sad movies..good fun
Comedies and good friends are a good combo.
You will feel like you are the only person to ever feel this way but believe me....almost everyone goes thru a broken heart at some point.
I wish you luck on your quest....if you are the one that has the broken heart.
time heals everything, just surround yourself with people who care about you. they should be there for you when you need them most, talk to them about it.
I know something that helps.
Ice cream, and a good FUNNY (not depressing) movie.
The rest takes time.
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stay active,less time to think less time to stress.
tape it with love
or staple it with sprinkles
UGH
just get over it.
if you had a broken heart you would be dead.
and your not dead, so kudos for that.
now just move on!
No contact and most importantly: time.
I know, all the suffering sucks and you wish it would just all go away.
But it takes time, it really does.
Find a hobby....time is really the only thing to fix it
also, when you are ready find another fella..that also helps...stating the obvious here
it all depends on why the heart was broken. Sometimes a broken heart calls for one thing. But, if the reason the heart was broken was for a specific thing, it sometimes calls for something other than what someone might expect. It all depends on the situation. Good Luck %26amp; Blessings
I'm sorry to hear that... well... there is no quick remedy or elixir for it overnight. TIME heals things... or most of them. It's hard. Well, the best thing would be occupy your mind with other things. Discover things you like to do... new activities, new places to visit, new projects around the house, new things to learn and read about. Also: can you help somebody in need? I know for a fact and experience when I am concerned with other people and trying to help them, I don't focus on my problem too much. In fact I find that my problem wasn't as big as that person's problem. That really makes me forget my problems, at least for a while. I hope you will get better and find happiness in your life again!
Yess please let it go and find someone that is worth it!!
Dont hang yahself coz its not worth it
Life is short and full of great things that u could achieve unlike
broken hearts cos its not worth it.......
keep searching 4 u will find someone who needs it
glue it back up stupi ....d
time heals all wounds, but first get to the bottom of why u have a broken heart-who was wrong and why/ be honest with yourself, and let the answers be your guide to moving on, it takes time and it will be hard, but u wil heal--good luck and may your heart never be broken again.Does anyone have advice on how to heal a broken heart?
well 1 st all I know what is like to have a broken Heart and i feel bad for you and let me tell you it will take time to heal and Pray about it and what most LDS people would do is they go to talk to their Bishop in their Wards and it dose help for me I go see Bishop Hanks one a month and it dose help to talk about it i hope that would help
a comfy pillow, some sad/angry music, and a lot of chocolate.
Everyone wants a magical spell...or should I say everyone wishes for a magical spell. But the best thing for a broken heart is time.
No sad music...no sad movies..good fun
Comedies and good friends are a good combo.
You will feel like you are the only person to ever feel this way but believe me....almost everyone goes thru a broken heart at some point.
I wish you luck on your quest....if you are the one that has the broken heart.
time heals everything, just surround yourself with people who care about you. they should be there for you when you need them most, talk to them about it.
I know something that helps.
Ice cream, and a good FUNNY (not depressing) movie.
The rest takes time.
:]
stay active,less time to think less time to stress.
tape it with love
or staple it with sprinkles
UGH
just get over it.
if you had a broken heart you would be dead.
and your not dead, so kudos for that.
now just move on!
No contact and most importantly: time.
I know, all the suffering sucks and you wish it would just all go away.
But it takes time, it really does.
Find a hobby....time is really the only thing to fix it
also, when you are ready find another fella..that also helps...stating the obvious here
it all depends on why the heart was broken. Sometimes a broken heart calls for one thing. But, if the reason the heart was broken was for a specific thing, it sometimes calls for something other than what someone might expect. It all depends on the situation. Good Luck %26amp; Blessings
I'm sorry to hear that... well... there is no quick remedy or elixir for it overnight. TIME heals things... or most of them. It's hard. Well, the best thing would be occupy your mind with other things. Discover things you like to do... new activities, new places to visit, new projects around the house, new things to learn and read about. Also: can you help somebody in need? I know for a fact and experience when I am concerned with other people and trying to help them, I don't focus on my problem too much. In fact I find that my problem wasn't as big as that person's problem. That really makes me forget my problems, at least for a while. I hope you will get better and find happiness in your life again!
Yess please let it go and find someone that is worth it!!
Dont hang yahself coz its not worth it
Life is short and full of great things that u could achieve unlike
broken hearts cos its not worth it.......
keep searching 4 u will find someone who needs it
glue it back up stupi ....d
Does anyone have advice on how to move on from a relationship?
please helpDoes anyone have advice on how to move on from a relationship?
u will need to go through the grief process, takes some time, but will get better as time goes on. sometimes it helps to join a therapy group, where u will meet others who are going through what u are, they will help u get past this. its no cup of tea to loose someone u love, it hurts, and u can expect to feel sad, and not yourself. prayer works, instead of focusing on the hurt, why not focus on god instead. maybe he has a different will for your life, so in order to move in that direction u would need to get a relationship going with god.Does anyone have advice on how to move on from a relationship?
Time does heal. You just have to step back and take a breath. There is no time line. Don't beat yourself up. I put a huge fence up around myself, not letting anyone in. Slowly, that came down, and I mean slowly. Stay active to things that interest you. Try to not have a lot of ';down'; time. Like yourself. Smile when you wake up in the morning, because you have no idea what the day can bring. Good luck!!
Rearrange the furniture, buy new pix for the wall so that you won't be sitting on the couch with ';memories'; and letting them depress you. Call a friend and go to the movies. keep yourself busy. Enroll in a class in a junior college and meet people. Most of all realize that it is not your fault that the relationship did not work out. It just wasn't meant to be. good luck
It takes TIME.... it sucks but it will get better over time. Try to keep yourself occupied. Working out will really help, so get to the gym!! Most important... if at all possible don't talk to the other person. It's hard, but eventually you will get over it and will be able to move on. It's hard, but ';time heals all wounds...';
Honey I've found it quite easy. Although I'm still legally married I'm a single mother of 2 husband is an idiot and is prison til 2011. It's all willpower. Do you have that in you. If you wake up everyday and wonder if your gonna get hit or hit her. Despise the sight of the opposite one than yes honey you can move on. If your a decent man with a job,.. pack it up honey and RUN.... There's plenty more out there than where you found that one.. Best of luck.. Been there done that
u will need to go through the grief process, takes some time, but will get better as time goes on. sometimes it helps to join a therapy group, where u will meet others who are going through what u are, they will help u get past this. its no cup of tea to loose someone u love, it hurts, and u can expect to feel sad, and not yourself. prayer works, instead of focusing on the hurt, why not focus on god instead. maybe he has a different will for your life, so in order to move in that direction u would need to get a relationship going with god.Does anyone have advice on how to move on from a relationship?
Time does heal. You just have to step back and take a breath. There is no time line. Don't beat yourself up. I put a huge fence up around myself, not letting anyone in. Slowly, that came down, and I mean slowly. Stay active to things that interest you. Try to not have a lot of ';down'; time. Like yourself. Smile when you wake up in the morning, because you have no idea what the day can bring. Good luck!!
Rearrange the furniture, buy new pix for the wall so that you won't be sitting on the couch with ';memories'; and letting them depress you. Call a friend and go to the movies. keep yourself busy. Enroll in a class in a junior college and meet people. Most of all realize that it is not your fault that the relationship did not work out. It just wasn't meant to be. good luck
It takes TIME.... it sucks but it will get better over time. Try to keep yourself occupied. Working out will really help, so get to the gym!! Most important... if at all possible don't talk to the other person. It's hard, but eventually you will get over it and will be able to move on. It's hard, but ';time heals all wounds...';
Honey I've found it quite easy. Although I'm still legally married I'm a single mother of 2 husband is an idiot and is prison til 2011. It's all willpower. Do you have that in you. If you wake up everyday and wonder if your gonna get hit or hit her. Despise the sight of the opposite one than yes honey you can move on. If your a decent man with a job,.. pack it up honey and RUN.... There's plenty more out there than where you found that one.. Best of luck.. Been there done that
Help! I need advice on how to increase the time I can hold my breath.?
Right now I can only hold my breath for about 1 minute and it's been that long since I was 10 (I'm 15 now)
Any help is appreciated!Help! I need advice on how to increase the time I can hold my breath.?
Well you have to practice.
Hold your breath for a minuet and 1 second
Then Rest for a minuet
Hold your Breath for a minuet and 2 seconds
Then Rest a minuet
Just keep holding your breath, it works better if you are underwater in a pool and you are holding onto a ladder or something.Help! I need advice on how to increase the time I can hold my breath.?
try swimming laps and holding your breath while swimming. Start off by doing 25's with no breaths, then 25's with flip turns and streamlines, then 25's with flip turns, streamlines, and swimming half a lap, and then 50's...just don't kill yourself. Make sure someone is with you when you're doing this. A lifeguard would be ideal.
A minute? wow. Are you a swimmer? If you swam the 100 free you would have SUCH an advantadge lol.
Um I can swim 50 yards in no breath, but idk how that would relate to time wise because i change my speed with my breathing...
You should take a deep breath and watch a clock or count. You can do it while watching TV, reading, pretending to pay attention to a conversation... Pretty much anywhere. It'll help to train your lungs. Over time you should see your breth control increase and your holding capacity go up too!
Any help is appreciated!Help! I need advice on how to increase the time I can hold my breath.?
Well you have to practice.
Hold your breath for a minuet and 1 second
Then Rest for a minuet
Hold your Breath for a minuet and 2 seconds
Then Rest a minuet
Just keep holding your breath, it works better if you are underwater in a pool and you are holding onto a ladder or something.Help! I need advice on how to increase the time I can hold my breath.?
try swimming laps and holding your breath while swimming. Start off by doing 25's with no breaths, then 25's with flip turns and streamlines, then 25's with flip turns, streamlines, and swimming half a lap, and then 50's...just don't kill yourself. Make sure someone is with you when you're doing this. A lifeguard would be ideal.
A minute? wow. Are you a swimmer? If you swam the 100 free you would have SUCH an advantadge lol.
Um I can swim 50 yards in no breath, but idk how that would relate to time wise because i change my speed with my breathing...
You should take a deep breath and watch a clock or count. You can do it while watching TV, reading, pretending to pay attention to a conversation... Pretty much anywhere. It'll help to train your lungs. Over time you should see your breth control increase and your holding capacity go up too!
Girls i need advice on how to fix my hair.?
my hair is short and very very thick. i hate my hair being so thick becuase it looks wierd. is there any product out there that thins my hair?Girls i need advice on how to fix my hair.?
You don't need to use products to thin your hair, simply ask you hairdresser to thin your hair and add some layers (this thins out hair).Girls i need advice on how to fix my hair.?
thick hair is great, much better than thin hair. go get your hair cut at a salon and ask for lots of layers so your hair is lighter.
straighten your hair.
i don't think there are products to thin out your hair because women are usually looking for products to thicken it. i love my thick hair. it's way more versatile.
I dont know about products..but I know that there are definitely ways your hair can be cut and trimmed to relieve some of the bulk. just talk to your hairdresser and discuss your concerns - I am sure they will have some ideas for you
go to a salon and ask for that kind of product and u can probally get it done there too.
You don't need to use products to thin your hair, simply ask you hairdresser to thin your hair and add some layers (this thins out hair).Girls i need advice on how to fix my hair.?
thick hair is great, much better than thin hair. go get your hair cut at a salon and ask for lots of layers so your hair is lighter.
straighten your hair.
i don't think there are products to thin out your hair because women are usually looking for products to thicken it. i love my thick hair. it's way more versatile.
I dont know about products..but I know that there are definitely ways your hair can be cut and trimmed to relieve some of the bulk. just talk to your hairdresser and discuss your concerns - I am sure they will have some ideas for you
go to a salon and ask for that kind of product and u can probally get it done there too.
Answer this if you believe in the book the secret / law of attraction I want to get advice how to use it beter
Ok well I have been listening to audio of the secret for about 2 months. Sadly I hadn't been having much luck for the past bout 5 or 6 months. I truely believe in things such as the law of attraction. Is there anything that I'm not doing right? I'm thankful because I have an extremely comfortable life. I'm 21 years old and I live with my parents in a great small city in los angeles California. I have a wonderful girlfriend, I'm in good health, I have everything I need , and I try to always be thankful. I'm going to be finished with school in about 2 years to get my degree in finance. About 6 weeks ago I said I will get a brand new black Subaru wrx STI within the next 3 weeks and I have not recieved my car yet...what happend? I would like anyone to give me some insite. I also used to work in the mortgage industry(making great money for a person my age), but the market has fallen.who can suggest a good job to get as I finish school. Where to look, what kind of job, how to get it? +subaruAnswer this if you believe in the book the secret / law of attraction I want to get advice how to use it beter
What is your intention? Get rid of religion and then try it, you will need to believe hard and get a lot of energy out here on the astral plane in order to see results. I have manifested income already because I believe hardcore. Keep on trying, just because it is easy with, the law of attraction still requires working on your part, if produces events based around your actions to deliver your goal, research harder and then the universe will pamper you to your laziest desires.Answer this if you believe in the book the secret / law of attraction I want to get advice how to use it beter
u think god will put one at ur door? think positive and work hard at getting it and then get it.
What is your intention? Get rid of religion and then try it, you will need to believe hard and get a lot of energy out here on the astral plane in order to see results. I have manifested income already because I believe hardcore. Keep on trying, just because it is easy with, the law of attraction still requires working on your part, if produces events based around your actions to deliver your goal, research harder and then the universe will pamper you to your laziest desires.Answer this if you believe in the book the secret / law of attraction I want to get advice how to use it beter
u think god will put one at ur door? think positive and work hard at getting it and then get it.
Is Ebay rigged? can the ppl you are buying from know your max bid? any advice on how to pay the least possible
No it's not rigged. They don't know your maximum bid.
The best way is to wait to the last 5 seconds of the auction to place you bid. If you bid to early it just drives the price up. I have seen cases where people are bidding more the you would pay in the store. Also watch out for the high shipping charges you don't want to be paying 20 bucks for shipping on something that cost you $5.Is Ebay rigged? can the ppl you are buying from know your max bid? any advice on how to pay the least possible
When I was selling a radio scanner on Ebay, I used a different account to bid on my own bid, AHAHAHA!!!!! I took it up from 45 to 95, the guy who bid on my auction won with 96. HAHAHAHA!!Is Ebay rigged? can the ppl you are buying from know your max bid? any advice on how to pay the least possible
As a buyer and seller i can tell you its not rigged. Why are you concerned about the seller knowing your max bid (which we can't)? It doesnt help the seller at all anyway. Some advice i can give you is to wait untill the last possible moment to put your bid in (not too late so you'll miss it but!). If you bid early that just makes more people bid over you. Also look for other items that are similar that could be cheaper.
And zipps86 ^ , watch what you say on the net, if you get caught doing that you'll get banned.
Well I have an EBay store and also buy things on e-bay, when you put in your max bid, you put the most you want to pay and e bay actually will take care of the rest say you bid max 50.00 and your item is at a starting bid of 20.00 and so you put 21.50 then say I come on and bid 22.00 e bay will put 22.50 for you then say another person comes along and does 25.00 they will put 25.50 for you ect. ect. they just wont bid over your max. I thought the same thing but now I have done some serious buying on there as well as selling and I have had many times my max bid was just say 50.00 and I won with 25.00 or whatever. so they didn't even come close to what I let them work with. However, you never know, people and companies are so scandels these day.. Good luck to ya!
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The best way is to wait to the last 5 seconds of the auction to place you bid. If you bid to early it just drives the price up. I have seen cases where people are bidding more the you would pay in the store. Also watch out for the high shipping charges you don't want to be paying 20 bucks for shipping on something that cost you $5.Is Ebay rigged? can the ppl you are buying from know your max bid? any advice on how to pay the least possible
When I was selling a radio scanner on Ebay, I used a different account to bid on my own bid, AHAHAHA!!!!! I took it up from 45 to 95, the guy who bid on my auction won with 96. HAHAHAHA!!Is Ebay rigged? can the ppl you are buying from know your max bid? any advice on how to pay the least possible
As a buyer and seller i can tell you its not rigged. Why are you concerned about the seller knowing your max bid (which we can't)? It doesnt help the seller at all anyway. Some advice i can give you is to wait untill the last possible moment to put your bid in (not too late so you'll miss it but!). If you bid early that just makes more people bid over you. Also look for other items that are similar that could be cheaper.
And zipps86 ^ , watch what you say on the net, if you get caught doing that you'll get banned.
Well I have an EBay store and also buy things on e-bay, when you put in your max bid, you put the most you want to pay and e bay actually will take care of the rest say you bid max 50.00 and your item is at a starting bid of 20.00 and so you put 21.50 then say I come on and bid 22.00 e bay will put 22.50 for you then say another person comes along and does 25.00 they will put 25.50 for you ect. ect. they just wont bid over your max. I thought the same thing but now I have done some serious buying on there as well as selling and I have had many times my max bid was just say 50.00 and I won with 25.00 or whatever. so they didn't even come close to what I let them work with. However, you never know, people and companies are so scandels these day.. Good luck to ya!
Sharon
HELP! i need advice about how to talk to my crush!?
I usually talk to my crush at lunch, but i get nervous so i cant think of anything else! PLEASE HELP! my crush is kinda um gothish... if tht helps lolHELP! i need advice about how to talk to my crush!?
lol. your funny. lol. anyway...... just talk to him. nicely. done. lolHELP! i need advice about how to talk to my crush!?
be smooth.
lol. your funny. lol. anyway...... just talk to him. nicely. done. lolHELP! i need advice about how to talk to my crush!?
be smooth.
I get err ';mem full.pls close application and try again'; in my nokia 5800. pls advice how to get rid of this.?
After each 3/4 hours my nokia 5800 (manufactured in april 2009) shows err ';Memory Full.Please Close some applications and try again';. This err comes while opening messages. Once this err comes most of the other application donot start at all.\r\nFor the time being I have to restart my mobile each time I get this err. I have more than 70 MB free phone memory.
Please advice what needs to be done.I get err ';mem full.pls close application and try again'; in my nokia 5800. pls advice how to get rid of this.?
Go to the nokia service center and get it repaired
Please advice what needs to be done.I get err ';mem full.pls close application and try again'; in my nokia 5800. pls advice how to get rid of this.?
Go to the nokia service center and get it repaired
Hey hi everyone!!! if anyone could please give me some advice on how to clean up my pc i think it's infected !
i already backed up the most important files (photos, videos, music even some programs etc.. but i dont know how to erase all the info that's in my computer so i can get rid of the virus. well thanks guys hope somebody can help me!!!!!!!!!!!!
(ha almost forgot to mention, i have windows vista)Hey hi everyone!!! if anyone could please give me some advice on how to clean up my pc i think it's infected !
Personally since you have all your important info backed up, I would do a total reformat. Then make sure that you have a good anti virus program.
';If you have a Windows Vista CD: Select the Install link then Custom (Advanced) installation method. Choose the partition on the hard drive you want to install Windows Vista. Note: For a completely 'clean' install (meaning hard drive contents wiped out completely), choose the ';Format'; command found after clicking the Drive Options (Advanced) link. Then click the Next button and installation will proceed.
Once Windows is reinstalled, you will have to reinstall your other programs individually from your original install disks.';
Then install your programs etc and get a good anti virus program. I would not advise Norton, I have found them to be totally unreliable and a pain in the rear to get rid of.
Hope this helps. I have included a couple links with more specific information, the first is where I got the quote specific for Vista, the second is a good basic info on reformatting.
Good Luck!Hey hi everyone!!! if anyone could please give me some advice on how to clean up my pc i think it's infected !
you can use avg antivirus free, you can download it at http://www.download.com/AVG-Anti-Virus-F鈥?/a> , but you must update it first.
if it's a spyware, you can download spyware doctor starter edition, you must update it too, but it use up to 200mb ram memory. at http://www.download.com/Spyware-Doctor-S鈥?/a>
download 'spybot search and destroy'
download 'adaware'
download 'AVG antivirus'
install and run the first two, then install AVG and run it
download ad aware and run that
or you can format your hard drive
here is some info%26gt;%26gt; by the way, Vista has it's own problems. I went to XP.
spybot.com, avast.com
Use Avast or NOD32 and go to safemode
NOd32 cost $50
Mate, since u have already done adequate back-up... do this: do a low-level format of the C: drive. and then install windows once again + application software + AVG and other security software. This way, you would be 10000% sure that ur PC is now absolutely clean of unwated stuff. Okay?
Chow, XX
(ha almost forgot to mention, i have windows vista)Hey hi everyone!!! if anyone could please give me some advice on how to clean up my pc i think it's infected !
Personally since you have all your important info backed up, I would do a total reformat. Then make sure that you have a good anti virus program.
';If you have a Windows Vista CD: Select the Install link then Custom (Advanced) installation method. Choose the partition on the hard drive you want to install Windows Vista. Note: For a completely 'clean' install (meaning hard drive contents wiped out completely), choose the ';Format'; command found after clicking the Drive Options (Advanced) link. Then click the Next button and installation will proceed.
Once Windows is reinstalled, you will have to reinstall your other programs individually from your original install disks.';
Then install your programs etc and get a good anti virus program. I would not advise Norton, I have found them to be totally unreliable and a pain in the rear to get rid of.
Hope this helps. I have included a couple links with more specific information, the first is where I got the quote specific for Vista, the second is a good basic info on reformatting.
Good Luck!Hey hi everyone!!! if anyone could please give me some advice on how to clean up my pc i think it's infected !
you can use avg antivirus free, you can download it at http://www.download.com/AVG-Anti-Virus-F鈥?/a> , but you must update it first.
if it's a spyware, you can download spyware doctor starter edition, you must update it too, but it use up to 200mb ram memory. at http://www.download.com/Spyware-Doctor-S鈥?/a>
download 'spybot search and destroy'
download 'adaware'
download 'AVG antivirus'
install and run the first two, then install AVG and run it
download ad aware and run that
or you can format your hard drive
here is some info%26gt;%26gt; by the way, Vista has it's own problems. I went to XP.
spybot.com, avast.com
Use Avast or NOD32 and go to safemode
NOd32 cost $50
Mate, since u have already done adequate back-up... do this: do a low-level format of the C: drive. and then install windows once again + application software + AVG and other security software. This way, you would be 10000% sure that ur PC is now absolutely clean of unwated stuff. Okay?
Chow, XX
How did you? or advice on how to get over a break up?
What did you do to help you. or do you just have ideas to help you move on.How did you? or advice on how to get over a break up?
I spent a lot more time with my friends and family and did a lot of other things to get over him. I started working out more which gives your body a chemical that makes you happy. To move on just kind of ';fish around';. Start flirting with other guys and see what happens. The nest one could be right around the corner.How did you? or advice on how to get over a break up?
i could use that awnser aswel...
Cry until you can't cry any more and move on. Know that there is someone better out there for you and spend lots of time with your friends and family while you're single because no matter who comes in and out of your life your family and real friends will always be around. In no time you will forget all about whatshisname and run into Mr. Wow!
you have to realize it obviously wasn't meant to be. so life is too short to chase after someone who doesn't wanna be chased. you'll just end up being too busy with him to see mr. right walking by right infront of you. if that made any sense to you? lol.
lean on your friends. they should be there for you in your time of need. if he broke up with you, try to figure out if you made any contributions to his decisions. if so, figure out if its something you can change (for future reference) or if he had no right to place that/those demand(s) on you. No matter what, learn to grow from the experience.
I tried to figure out what my role was in the break up. In other words, I'm no angel either. And then I cried and was angry, and then after a while I got over it. This is in regards to a divorce, so it wasn't just a fling or anything. And don't stay in the house being depressed. Go out with friends and develop your social life. That's a life saver. And don't jump into another relationship right away. Wait until you are not angry any more. But there is nothing wrong with an occasional booty call IMO.
yeah i just broke up with my boyfreind on wensady and i have a new boyfreind now anit to happy about it but stuff happeneds so i still wanted to be freinds with my X bf but then now as i hang out with him i feel my self falling for him again if u want s freind ship dont be like everyone eles saying i just want to be freinds ask him if he still wants to be freinds and tell him you do. let him down easly. like i told mine we acted like more like a couple when we were just freinds and didnt fight as much. well good luck , how to move on i go to ice cream lol but i justed packed up all his things basicly all are memriors while i did this played sad song and just had like one sad day and just moped around and then the next day just tryed to fouget and move on go to your freinds or ur dog. good luck bye
either find a ';rebound'; or suck it up and drive on, live like you never knew him....do your usual thing, and dont ';hate'; him.... the opposit of love is not hate , but ignorance...... if you hate him you are still giving him too much thought!!!!! love and hate are feelings , to fight a feeling give it no feeling, no thought, dont revenge..... trust me ... this will hurt him bad........
Well I try to go out with my friends, keep your mind on something else. AVOID romantic songs that Will make you think of the days you were an item. Go to the movies, shopping, read a book, just keep your mind busy that it wont give you time to think of him. As well think that things happen for a reason.He wasnt meant for you and theres always plenty of man out there that can make you happier. Good Luck
I spent a lot more time with my friends and family and did a lot of other things to get over him. I started working out more which gives your body a chemical that makes you happy. To move on just kind of ';fish around';. Start flirting with other guys and see what happens. The nest one could be right around the corner.How did you? or advice on how to get over a break up?
i could use that awnser aswel...
Cry until you can't cry any more and move on. Know that there is someone better out there for you and spend lots of time with your friends and family while you're single because no matter who comes in and out of your life your family and real friends will always be around. In no time you will forget all about whatshisname and run into Mr. Wow!
you have to realize it obviously wasn't meant to be. so life is too short to chase after someone who doesn't wanna be chased. you'll just end up being too busy with him to see mr. right walking by right infront of you. if that made any sense to you? lol.
lean on your friends. they should be there for you in your time of need. if he broke up with you, try to figure out if you made any contributions to his decisions. if so, figure out if its something you can change (for future reference) or if he had no right to place that/those demand(s) on you. No matter what, learn to grow from the experience.
I tried to figure out what my role was in the break up. In other words, I'm no angel either. And then I cried and was angry, and then after a while I got over it. This is in regards to a divorce, so it wasn't just a fling or anything. And don't stay in the house being depressed. Go out with friends and develop your social life. That's a life saver. And don't jump into another relationship right away. Wait until you are not angry any more. But there is nothing wrong with an occasional booty call IMO.
yeah i just broke up with my boyfreind on wensady and i have a new boyfreind now anit to happy about it but stuff happeneds so i still wanted to be freinds with my X bf but then now as i hang out with him i feel my self falling for him again if u want s freind ship dont be like everyone eles saying i just want to be freinds ask him if he still wants to be freinds and tell him you do. let him down easly. like i told mine we acted like more like a couple when we were just freinds and didnt fight as much. well good luck , how to move on i go to ice cream lol but i justed packed up all his things basicly all are memriors while i did this played sad song and just had like one sad day and just moped around and then the next day just tryed to fouget and move on go to your freinds or ur dog. good luck bye
either find a ';rebound'; or suck it up and drive on, live like you never knew him....do your usual thing, and dont ';hate'; him.... the opposit of love is not hate , but ignorance...... if you hate him you are still giving him too much thought!!!!! love and hate are feelings , to fight a feeling give it no feeling, no thought, dont revenge..... trust me ... this will hurt him bad........
Well I try to go out with my friends, keep your mind on something else. AVOID romantic songs that Will make you think of the days you were an item. Go to the movies, shopping, read a book, just keep your mind busy that it wont give you time to think of him. As well think that things happen for a reason.He wasnt meant for you and theres always plenty of man out there that can make you happier. Good Luck
I am training for a triathelon that includes swimming.Any advice on how to keep a black girls hair conditioned
i agree with keeping a good conditioner on it, but in my opinion wearing a swim cap will definetly keep down on the damage and breakage that occurs with ethnic hair breakage from the chlorine. As african-americans, we do not need to shampoo our hair daily. This strips the natural oils from our hair. That is why we do it once or twice every two weeks. If you will be in the pool frequently, I suggest the swim cap.I am training for a triathelon that includes swimming.Any advice on how to keep a black girls hair conditioned
Condition it before you get in the pool, it'll act as a wall between your hair and the chlorine...don't wash it out y'know, just put it on your hair before you get in the pool. Don't be afraid to really get it all through your hair.I am training for a triathelon that includes swimming.Any advice on how to keep a black girls hair conditioned
Try the new pantene for women of color..they have the whole line and i think the moisterizer will be good for when ur training,,and it keeps it from drying..
Cholesterol usually works for me.
Condition it before you get in the pool, it'll act as a wall between your hair and the chlorine...don't wash it out y'know, just put it on your hair before you get in the pool. Don't be afraid to really get it all through your hair.I am training for a triathelon that includes swimming.Any advice on how to keep a black girls hair conditioned
Try the new pantene for women of color..they have the whole line and i think the moisterizer will be good for when ur training,,and it keeps it from drying..
Cholesterol usually works for me.
I am coaching 6, 7, and 8 year olds...any advice on how to coach them?
I want to teach them the basics...any advice????I am coaching 6, 7, and 8 year olds...any advice on how to coach them?
Ok firs have them play knock out. Dribble knock out. teach em how to dribble as low as they can go. teach em how to rebound. teach em how to shoot. got them in layup linesI am coaching 6, 7, and 8 year olds...any advice on how to coach them?
teach them all of the basic fundamentals...passing, lay-ups, dribbling, shooting, etc...don't have them run any big plays because they will probly get confused easily!
Keep it simple. Don't stress out about doing everything right. You want to make sure that they enjoy the experience. They have plenty of years to worry about doing everything right. If they don't enjoy it they won't come back.
As far as skills, I would work on dribbling, passing and catching, and introduce the concept of teamwork. Show them the proper way to shoot, but don't worry about if their technique isn't 100% correct.
make it fun for yourself as well. If you don't enjoy it, the kids will know.
First, I would suggest lots of ball handling and defensive drills. A player that can play defense and handle the basketball can be successful at almost any level. Second, I would recommend emphasizing the correct shooting form because your players are at an age where they develop terrible habits. Third, emphasize teamwork over winning. Practices improve players when they're based on getting better, not being competitive. Your players have hundreds of games ahead of them, don't emphasize the winning and losing just yet. And finally, make sure they're always having fun. Players that fall in love with basketball will want to make themselves better and be easier to coach in the future. Hope all goes well.
I agree with Bobby McG. Teach them the basics, then go from there. Get involved if you can. They will like it better if you are on the floor with them, not yelling from the sidelines. And have fun. If you do, they will. At this age, that is what it is about. Good luck
a big stick always helps....lolnew makeup
Ok firs have them play knock out. Dribble knock out. teach em how to dribble as low as they can go. teach em how to rebound. teach em how to shoot. got them in layup linesI am coaching 6, 7, and 8 year olds...any advice on how to coach them?
teach them all of the basic fundamentals...passing, lay-ups, dribbling, shooting, etc...don't have them run any big plays because they will probly get confused easily!
Keep it simple. Don't stress out about doing everything right. You want to make sure that they enjoy the experience. They have plenty of years to worry about doing everything right. If they don't enjoy it they won't come back.
As far as skills, I would work on dribbling, passing and catching, and introduce the concept of teamwork. Show them the proper way to shoot, but don't worry about if their technique isn't 100% correct.
make it fun for yourself as well. If you don't enjoy it, the kids will know.
First, I would suggest lots of ball handling and defensive drills. A player that can play defense and handle the basketball can be successful at almost any level. Second, I would recommend emphasizing the correct shooting form because your players are at an age where they develop terrible habits. Third, emphasize teamwork over winning. Practices improve players when they're based on getting better, not being competitive. Your players have hundreds of games ahead of them, don't emphasize the winning and losing just yet. And finally, make sure they're always having fun. Players that fall in love with basketball will want to make themselves better and be easier to coach in the future. Hope all goes well.
I agree with Bobby McG. Teach them the basics, then go from there. Get involved if you can. They will like it better if you are on the floor with them, not yelling from the sidelines. And have fun. If you do, they will. At this age, that is what it is about. Good luck
a big stick always helps....lol
I need advice on how to talk to my parents?
i am almost 17 and i dont have a vehicle or a job%26gt; my parents dont want me to get a job and i want a car. the problem is i am a cheerleader and i am invovled in a lot of extra curricular activities and i have to bum rides because my momsa busy ldoing her workI need advice on how to talk to my parents?
You could try to sell stuff online, like old books you don't read anymore and such. It wouldn't be much money but it would be a start.
Or find some random unimportant object and find some saint or state or whatever that it is vaguely shaped like and sell it on eBay for millions. Others have done it in the past with great results.I need advice on how to talk to my parents?
Try discussing this with your parents. What is more important to you: extra curricular activities or getting a car (which you will need a job to get)? Talk to your parents about getting a car, if they say they cant afford it then say you want to get a job so you can buy one. Negotiate and stick with your gut feelings. Parents might desuade you but talk to them before you do anything and make sure your heart/gut are both supporting what you choose to do. Good Luck!
You could talk to her just like you just posed the question to us. But maybe your mother doesn't want you to have a job because it might interfere with your studies. And sometimes it is hard for us to see our children grow-up. Sit like an adult and discuss it with her. Find out her exact reasons and see if there is anything that might change her mind. Maybe she will let you do it for a trial, try a couple weeks and re-evaluate the situation and see how both of you feel.
You should talk to her about a summer job.
see if you can get a job during the summer when you are less busy
Just tell them it wont hurt.Keeping it inside is goin cause u alot of pain.It will work out tell them if u could help ur mom on certain days.Hope it works out.
You could try to sell stuff online, like old books you don't read anymore and such. It wouldn't be much money but it would be a start.
Or find some random unimportant object and find some saint or state or whatever that it is vaguely shaped like and sell it on eBay for millions. Others have done it in the past with great results.I need advice on how to talk to my parents?
Try discussing this with your parents. What is more important to you: extra curricular activities or getting a car (which you will need a job to get)? Talk to your parents about getting a car, if they say they cant afford it then say you want to get a job so you can buy one. Negotiate and stick with your gut feelings. Parents might desuade you but talk to them before you do anything and make sure your heart/gut are both supporting what you choose to do. Good Luck!
You could talk to her just like you just posed the question to us. But maybe your mother doesn't want you to have a job because it might interfere with your studies. And sometimes it is hard for us to see our children grow-up. Sit like an adult and discuss it with her. Find out her exact reasons and see if there is anything that might change her mind. Maybe she will let you do it for a trial, try a couple weeks and re-evaluate the situation and see how both of you feel.
You should talk to her about a summer job.
see if you can get a job during the summer when you are less busy
Just tell them it wont hurt.Keeping it inside is goin cause u alot of pain.It will work out tell them if u could help ur mom on certain days.Hope it works out.
I need advice on how to not get caught by my mom?
ok. Friday my mom is taken me to my friend tara's gmas house. she thinks we are stayin there but really me and tara are goin to her and my boyfriends house. her gma lives down the street from our boyfriends. i need sum tips on sneaking out. tara's gma knows we're gonna stay over there and she dont care, but i need to make sure my mom dont find out. wat if she calls or she wants to stop by.. i jus need tips to make sure she will never find out. me and tara wanna stay the night wit our bfs. so wat should we do. i have a cellphone my mom will prolly call that but wat should i do. so she wont find outI need advice on how to not get caught by my mom?
Well 3 options
1.Do it and get caught...... by some chance u know
2.tell your mom your real plans and make it beliveable
3.Just don,t do itI need advice on how to not get caught by my mom?
this is stupid.....why not wait till your old enough to not worry about what ';mommy'; says?
Tell her you are going to the movies, skating, and then bowling, etc. so if she stops by or calls and you're not there you have an excuse.
I know your Mother and I'm thinking of getting ahold of her today.
if ur mom calls your celly, go to the bathroom and answer, if she calls taras house, get tara's sibling to answer and say u 2 r busy
Remember there are always repercussions for your actions and words...lying and doing things you know you aren't supposed to have consequences...you may get away with it now, but it'll catch up with you eventually.
Think carefully about the risks and is it really worth it.
Just hang out at her grandma's for a little bit until your mom thinks that you are going to sleep. Once she thinks you're in bed, go over your boyfriend's. If she calls your cell phone, answer it and act like she woke you up. Or if the sleeping thing doesn't work just say you're watching movies or playing games or something. It's not that hard to get around as long as you play it off well. You have to be a good liar in order to get away with this stuff. But be careful, and I don't know how old you are but it seems like you're very young so you should be careful with sneaking out to your boyfriend's. I used to do this kind of stuff all the time, just be smart about it if you're going to do it at all.
Don't do things you shouldn't
tell your mom your friend gmas taking you all out to the movies and to dinner. or call her and tell her your friends gmas phone is not working. or just have tara's gmas tell your mom you two went to the mall to see a movie
Never good to lie....there's a reason your NOT supposed to go over there!
Moms always find out. They might not always tell you that they know, but they KNOW!
dont do if if u know for sure u will get caught cause u prolly will
but what not to do is, if she calls her gma house, and she says u wernt their, say u were in the shower at the time, just make up general but logical excuses if u get caught
Dont be dishonest. It never ends well. You will get caught no matter what you try and do. Parents have eyes in the backs of their heads.
dont do it i try it didnt work
Probably not posting this question on a public webpage would be a good start.
Better yet, try figuring out what you're going to tell your mom when you end up pregnant after staying at your boyfriends house.
Tell your mom if she calls your some where else and your friends gma just got onfussed cuase shes old
Well 3 options
1.Do it and get caught...... by some chance u know
2.tell your mom your real plans and make it beliveable
3.Just don,t do itI need advice on how to not get caught by my mom?
this is stupid.....why not wait till your old enough to not worry about what ';mommy'; says?
Tell her you are going to the movies, skating, and then bowling, etc. so if she stops by or calls and you're not there you have an excuse.
I know your Mother and I'm thinking of getting ahold of her today.
if ur mom calls your celly, go to the bathroom and answer, if she calls taras house, get tara's sibling to answer and say u 2 r busy
Remember there are always repercussions for your actions and words...lying and doing things you know you aren't supposed to have consequences...you may get away with it now, but it'll catch up with you eventually.
Think carefully about the risks and is it really worth it.
Just hang out at her grandma's for a little bit until your mom thinks that you are going to sleep. Once she thinks you're in bed, go over your boyfriend's. If she calls your cell phone, answer it and act like she woke you up. Or if the sleeping thing doesn't work just say you're watching movies or playing games or something. It's not that hard to get around as long as you play it off well. You have to be a good liar in order to get away with this stuff. But be careful, and I don't know how old you are but it seems like you're very young so you should be careful with sneaking out to your boyfriend's. I used to do this kind of stuff all the time, just be smart about it if you're going to do it at all.
Don't do things you shouldn't
tell your mom your friend gmas taking you all out to the movies and to dinner. or call her and tell her your friends gmas phone is not working. or just have tara's gmas tell your mom you two went to the mall to see a movie
Never good to lie....there's a reason your NOT supposed to go over there!
Moms always find out. They might not always tell you that they know, but they KNOW!
dont do if if u know for sure u will get caught cause u prolly will
but what not to do is, if she calls her gma house, and she says u wernt their, say u were in the shower at the time, just make up general but logical excuses if u get caught
Dont be dishonest. It never ends well. You will get caught no matter what you try and do. Parents have eyes in the backs of their heads.
dont do it i try it didnt work
Probably not posting this question on a public webpage would be a good start.
Better yet, try figuring out what you're going to tell your mom when you end up pregnant after staying at your boyfriends house.
Tell your mom if she calls your some where else and your friends gma just got onfussed cuase shes old
I need advice on how to position the tattoo im getting.?
im getting merci pour le venin.
if you dont know what it means then you dont need to.
im 18. so its my choice i dont want the stupid dont do it.
im going to either way.
anyways im getting it on my wrist
and im wondering if itd look better on one wrist or put merci pour on one and le venin on the other.
please help.
=DI need advice on how to position the tattoo im getting.?
In my own opinion, I think it would look great on 2 wrists. Because unless you want it stacked or going all the way around, I think it would look good on 2. You could go to your tattoo parlor and ask the artist to put the stencil on your 2 wrists, and then ask him to remove it and then have him place it on 1 wrist to see which one you like best. Most places might do this for free, so if you live close to it you should deff. try. Good luck.I need advice on how to position the tattoo im getting.?
Unless you think you will being menial jobs for the rest of your life, do not put it on either wrist nor anyplace you cannot completely cover with normal working clothes. Many employers are concerned with the company image that employees with visible tattoos create. It is your body but use some discretion in where you have tattoos placed. You also might want to consider if you want this sentiment on your body for the rest of your life.
I think it would look cute on one list, in like, little script.
But clearly it's up to you.
Not everyone likes to ask about your tattoos, so your going to have people looking at it thinking ';merci pour?';
Plus if you have it on one, you can save the the valuable real estate on the other side for something else :P
With lettering, you can not go too tiny, it will not hold up over time and it will blur. My artist of 28 yrs., told me that letters should not be less than 1/2'; high to hold up well over time.
So, with this in mind, you can either place it on your forearm (which can look quite nice, or on the 2 wrists, or stacked on one. Your artist will help you visualize this.
I think it would look hot rapped around one wrist:) that Is my opinion- do what you feel is the best though it is your body- and also it depends on the size of your wrist because if it is to small it will be hard to fit all and make it legible
Put it on the one that you flip fries with so you can see it while you work!!
i rekon it would look better on one wrist... if u havent chose the lettering type her is a good site for it www.tattoolettering.com
put it where u think it look the best!
if you dont know what it means then you dont need to.
im 18. so its my choice i dont want the stupid dont do it.
im going to either way.
anyways im getting it on my wrist
and im wondering if itd look better on one wrist or put merci pour on one and le venin on the other.
please help.
=DI need advice on how to position the tattoo im getting.?
In my own opinion, I think it would look great on 2 wrists. Because unless you want it stacked or going all the way around, I think it would look good on 2. You could go to your tattoo parlor and ask the artist to put the stencil on your 2 wrists, and then ask him to remove it and then have him place it on 1 wrist to see which one you like best. Most places might do this for free, so if you live close to it you should deff. try. Good luck.I need advice on how to position the tattoo im getting.?
Unless you think you will being menial jobs for the rest of your life, do not put it on either wrist nor anyplace you cannot completely cover with normal working clothes. Many employers are concerned with the company image that employees with visible tattoos create. It is your body but use some discretion in where you have tattoos placed. You also might want to consider if you want this sentiment on your body for the rest of your life.
I think it would look cute on one list, in like, little script.
But clearly it's up to you.
Not everyone likes to ask about your tattoos, so your going to have people looking at it thinking ';merci pour?';
Plus if you have it on one, you can save the the valuable real estate on the other side for something else :P
With lettering, you can not go too tiny, it will not hold up over time and it will blur. My artist of 28 yrs., told me that letters should not be less than 1/2'; high to hold up well over time.
So, with this in mind, you can either place it on your forearm (which can look quite nice, or on the 2 wrists, or stacked on one. Your artist will help you visualize this.
I think it would look hot rapped around one wrist:) that Is my opinion- do what you feel is the best though it is your body- and also it depends on the size of your wrist because if it is to small it will be hard to fit all and make it legible
Put it on the one that you flip fries with so you can see it while you work!!
i rekon it would look better on one wrist... if u havent chose the lettering type her is a good site for it www.tattoolettering.com
put it where u think it look the best!
Plug and play game is only playing in black and white on TV. Any advice on how to change to colour please?
try checking the other auxilliary channels of the TV, it could be that you are on the wrong one so only getting part of the picture information
I need advice on how to maintain composure...?
i need some advice on how i should manage stress. im 25 and i go through the work, (long distant) relationship, same **** different day type **** and it seems like it never ends. seriously. im asking to see if anyone can share with me how a person on a low budget can find nice relaxing ways to manage stress. i stuff a lot of emotions because i know it is what is required of me. someone who knows what im talking about break it down for me, please.I need advice on how to maintain composure...?
You could consider Valerian from a Health Food shop which is natural and available over the counter. It is great for stress/anxiety and/or Nervousness and it shouldn't be expensive. You could google a short piece called Desiderata which might help you as well. Then you could focus on strengths rather than weaknesses, positives rather than negatives. Make sure you have a good sleep routine. Consider doing some part time volunteer work (minimal hours) where you would be in a totally different environment with new people for a little while. This would help you to put stuff into perspective and help you make decisions if you need to. I hope you find something in here to help.UKI need advice on how to maintain composure...?
well first off if you being on a low budget have med ins go see a dr.. about a rx i know people dont want to depend on medication but it really does help , I have to for panic and anxiety. but if not then just try to be in a comfy quiet place for a mediation once a day. read a book., escape . or go for long walks, like maybe you need alone time to unwind and destress it helps me to walk my dogs and just kind of block out stressful thoughts. it did take me a long time to learn how to tune it all OUT!
My dogs are my saving grace. I don't know what I would do without them. Dogs can heal many wounds.
You could consider Valerian from a Health Food shop which is natural and available over the counter. It is great for stress/anxiety and/or Nervousness and it shouldn't be expensive. You could google a short piece called Desiderata which might help you as well. Then you could focus on strengths rather than weaknesses, positives rather than negatives. Make sure you have a good sleep routine. Consider doing some part time volunteer work (minimal hours) where you would be in a totally different environment with new people for a little while. This would help you to put stuff into perspective and help you make decisions if you need to. I hope you find something in here to help.UKI need advice on how to maintain composure...?
well first off if you being on a low budget have med ins go see a dr.. about a rx i know people dont want to depend on medication but it really does help , I have to for panic and anxiety. but if not then just try to be in a comfy quiet place for a mediation once a day. read a book., escape . or go for long walks, like maybe you need alone time to unwind and destress it helps me to walk my dogs and just kind of block out stressful thoughts. it did take me a long time to learn how to tune it all OUT!
My dogs are my saving grace. I don't know what I would do without them. Dogs can heal many wounds.
Any advice on how to beat hades cup/synthesize all items?
good advice tell me who to fight how 2 beat them and how to get the things i need to synthesizeAny advice on how to beat hades cup/synthesize all items?
in that case in d hades cup try 2 get at level at least 80 n' have a lot of abilities equiped.now bout the synthesize items try 2 revisit different worlds n' figth a lot ,lot ,lot of heartless.Any advice on how to beat hades cup/synthesize all items?
buy the guide, stock up on hi-potions, exlirs, etc.
its not as hard as it looks. i beat it at level 52.and i never died once during it.new makeup
in that case in d hades cup try 2 get at level at least 80 n' have a lot of abilities equiped.now bout the synthesize items try 2 revisit different worlds n' figth a lot ,lot ,lot of heartless.Any advice on how to beat hades cup/synthesize all items?
buy the guide, stock up on hi-potions, exlirs, etc.
its not as hard as it looks. i beat it at level 52.and i never died once during it.
Need advice on how to tell a guy I like him.?
We are both 11.Need advice on how to tell a guy I like him.?
Greetings! I am a Hindu Muslim.
Say ';Gee, you are so very nice. It would not take much for me to get a crush on you.';
That way, the choice is his if he likes you, and you haven't embarrassed yourself.
Thank you - come again.Need advice on how to tell a guy I like him.?
i have no idea. i really don't make a habit of telling guys that i like them. . .
but don't get in their face, just enjoy hanging out with him and just be a friend. and eventually it will turn into something better then just liking him. it will be closer - not a boyfriend just a good friend.
Simple!
Say to him, i think you are very nice and i like you more than a friend.
Or simply just say i like you!! OR i fancy you :)
See what he says??
Hope it helps
take a deep breath, relax, and let is just spill out. don't even think twice.
just do it!
goodluck
Xs
lol, you should be thinking about your dolls.
Greetings! I am a Hindu Muslim.
Say ';Gee, you are so very nice. It would not take much for me to get a crush on you.';
That way, the choice is his if he likes you, and you haven't embarrassed yourself.
Thank you - come again.Need advice on how to tell a guy I like him.?
i have no idea. i really don't make a habit of telling guys that i like them. . .
but don't get in their face, just enjoy hanging out with him and just be a friend. and eventually it will turn into something better then just liking him. it will be closer - not a boyfriend just a good friend.
Simple!
Say to him, i think you are very nice and i like you more than a friend.
Or simply just say i like you!! OR i fancy you :)
See what he says??
Hope it helps
take a deep breath, relax, and let is just spill out. don't even think twice.
just do it!
goodluck
Xs
lol, you should be thinking about your dolls.
Help -- advice on how to quit living in fantasy??
my therapist recently told me that the reason i am so unhappy and cannot move forward with my life, is because i live in a ';fantasy'; world in my head. I think she may be right. but i've been in that 'place' for 30 years! Can anyone else relate to this -- and how do i find REALITY when i don't feel like i ever really live there?? thanks.. ;-)Help -- advice on how to quit living in fantasy??
I know exactly how you feel, I'm constantly making up stories and fantasies that I turn to whenever I'm sad or upset. I've always done it, I think people like us may just be slightly more creative and fantastically inclined than most people. But, I don't really know. What I do when I need to escape the fantasy is talk to people, have fun with them, call my friends, talk to them online, have a normal conversation. I do whatever it takes to bring myself back to earth, and I try not to think about my fantasy worlds as much, though I keep them in the back of my mind for the times when I really need them. I think that's how it works. We have to try to live in the real world, but we can never truly rid ourselves of the worlds we created. They'll always be a part of us, we just have to accept it and move on with our lives, and be happy with the way that the real world is.Help -- advice on how to quit living in fantasy??
You could get out there and start a new interest which would expand your social life and take your mind off your fantasies.
To be honest, if they're not causing you any problems then you shouldn't worry about them. Some people do live in fantasy land and that's fine for them. Your therapist shouldn't be so judgemental. Sometimes fantasy is a useful escape from a difficult reality - it relieves stress and gives you a different perspective on your life.
what kinda fantasy world?
we all have one, trust me. you have to deal with it
go out with your friends
wat exactly.can u plz tell me abt it.i hav that prb with me.i hide that part from my psyctrist contact me at : addmeifulikeme@yahoo.com
I know exactly how you feel, I'm constantly making up stories and fantasies that I turn to whenever I'm sad or upset. I've always done it, I think people like us may just be slightly more creative and fantastically inclined than most people. But, I don't really know. What I do when I need to escape the fantasy is talk to people, have fun with them, call my friends, talk to them online, have a normal conversation. I do whatever it takes to bring myself back to earth, and I try not to think about my fantasy worlds as much, though I keep them in the back of my mind for the times when I really need them. I think that's how it works. We have to try to live in the real world, but we can never truly rid ourselves of the worlds we created. They'll always be a part of us, we just have to accept it and move on with our lives, and be happy with the way that the real world is.Help -- advice on how to quit living in fantasy??
You could get out there and start a new interest which would expand your social life and take your mind off your fantasies.
To be honest, if they're not causing you any problems then you shouldn't worry about them. Some people do live in fantasy land and that's fine for them. Your therapist shouldn't be so judgemental. Sometimes fantasy is a useful escape from a difficult reality - it relieves stress and gives you a different perspective on your life.
what kinda fantasy world?
we all have one, trust me. you have to deal with it
go out with your friends
wat exactly.can u plz tell me abt it.i hav that prb with me.i hide that part from my psyctrist contact me at : addmeifulikeme@yahoo.com
Need advice on how to curl my hair!!!?
my hair is wicked straight and i want to curl it so it has really,really small curls. Recommend anything to help.Need advice on how to curl my hair!!!?
I love to curl my hair!! so i guess i will help you just go buy a curler iron hair thingy lol and make ur hair curly or go to the salon and they can do it for you PERFECTLY!!Need advice on how to curl my hair!!!?
My hair is very VERRRYYY thin and fine and curls never stayed. So what I do is while my hair is still wet i put a little bit like a dime size of pantene ';pomade';, just run it through your hair, then blow dry it, after that I start curling my hair little by little but every strand Im curling I spray with bed heads Maxxed out hairspray, but you have to spray it when your hair is on the curling iron...does that make sense? haha, Im horrible at explaining things on here!!! after that just spray it again with the hairs spray, at first your hair will feel hard but believe me! it goes soft after a while but your curls stay!!! its the best!
ummm try using this
http://www.conair.com/ceramic-instant-he鈥?/a>
it takes forever to style tho. :/
or you could try using a 3 barrel waver
curls r totally awusum nd ull look good either way
You know that babyliss pro curling wand? Well i use that at the salons at college and when i was doing my friends hair i sectioned it into 4 sections and took tiny pieces of hair down then curled it. I tried tongs but they sucked at it. Her hair is also dead dead straight and when i did it for her they were tight and very curly curls. I also used alot of hairspray to stop the curls from dropping. I found it really easy (:
I love to curl my hair!! so i guess i will help you just go buy a curler iron hair thingy lol and make ur hair curly or go to the salon and they can do it for you PERFECTLY!!Need advice on how to curl my hair!!!?
My hair is very VERRRYYY thin and fine and curls never stayed. So what I do is while my hair is still wet i put a little bit like a dime size of pantene ';pomade';, just run it through your hair, then blow dry it, after that I start curling my hair little by little but every strand Im curling I spray with bed heads Maxxed out hairspray, but you have to spray it when your hair is on the curling iron...does that make sense? haha, Im horrible at explaining things on here!!! after that just spray it again with the hairs spray, at first your hair will feel hard but believe me! it goes soft after a while but your curls stay!!! its the best!
ummm try using this
http://www.conair.com/ceramic-instant-he鈥?/a>
it takes forever to style tho. :/
or you could try using a 3 barrel waver
curls r totally awusum nd ull look good either way
You know that babyliss pro curling wand? Well i use that at the salons at college and when i was doing my friends hair i sectioned it into 4 sections and took tiny pieces of hair down then curled it. I tried tongs but they sucked at it. Her hair is also dead dead straight and when i did it for her they were tight and very curly curls. I also used alot of hairspray to stop the curls from dropping. I found it really easy (:
Any advice on how to quit smoking weed?
cold turkeyAny advice on how to quit smoking weed?
It's not addictive.
Stop buying it.Any advice on how to quit smoking weed?
substitute the time you spent high with something constructive like exercising or reading
Channel your cravings towards a positive outlet (yoga, dancing, etc).
Why quit?
go to rehab
don't buy it
Uhh, stop. No, sh!t, it works.
mmm work out ....
It's not addictive.
Stop buying it.Any advice on how to quit smoking weed?
substitute the time you spent high with something constructive like exercising or reading
Channel your cravings towards a positive outlet (yoga, dancing, etc).
Why quit?
go to rehab
don't buy it
Uhh, stop. No, sh!t, it works.
mmm work out ....
Any advice on how to help patch of dry scalp/dermatitis?
go to walmart or any drug store and find a shampoo for dry scalp or a treatment on same aisle.
Very important DO NOT WASH YOUR HAIR WITH HOT WATER just warmAny advice on how to help patch of dry scalp/dermatitis?
Talk to my mom at wins@mpinet.net-she has had ';small'; but other relatives have had to body skin- try to use neo-sporin(sp?) or aloe vera- check ';remendies'; sites- some can work.
Very important DO NOT WASH YOUR HAIR WITH HOT WATER just warmAny advice on how to help patch of dry scalp/dermatitis?
Talk to my mom at wins@mpinet.net-she has had ';small'; but other relatives have had to body skin- try to use neo-sporin(sp?) or aloe vera- check ';remendies'; sites- some can work.
Any advice on how to stop crushing on someone?
crush on someone else!Any advice on how to stop crushing on someone?
Keep yourself busy busy busy. Find someone else unless you are the type to ';rebound';.Any advice on how to stop crushing on someone?
Ya can't fight the feeling. But you can ignore it. As long as you've determined it's just a crush, then and you know that you don't want to be in it, just don't act on it. The second step is to move on. And viola~ you just conquered getting over a crush!
Block them out of your head completely, keep yourself busy. Find someone new to have a crush on. It always helps to find a replacement.
You just have to ride it out until the next crush catches your eye.
think of something on his/her appearance or attitude that you don't like
or have a crush on someone elsenew makeup
Keep yourself busy busy busy. Find someone else unless you are the type to ';rebound';.Any advice on how to stop crushing on someone?
Ya can't fight the feeling. But you can ignore it. As long as you've determined it's just a crush, then and you know that you don't want to be in it, just don't act on it. The second step is to move on. And viola~ you just conquered getting over a crush!
Block them out of your head completely, keep yourself busy. Find someone new to have a crush on. It always helps to find a replacement.
You just have to ride it out until the next crush catches your eye.
think of something on his/her appearance or attitude that you don't like
or have a crush on someone else
Need advice on how to balance husband and kids.?
okay, my husband thinks that we need a trial separation to try to remember the love, need and want of eachother. He says that we don't know eachother anymore. It's hard to get a babysitter so date night is out unless we have it at home. Advice please!!!Need advice on how to balance husband and kids.?
Sounds to me like your husband has a girlfriend or is looking for one. Men need attention and will find it where it is available. And it is not just sexual attention they crave, they also want to feel connected emotionally %26amp; intellectually.
1. Give the kids a bedtime and be firm about it. My daughter is 9 and goes to bed every night at 8:30 (Lights out and tv off at 9:30). Find a babysitter (quit making excuses!) your mom, his mom, a sister, cousin, neighbor - someone will watch your children for a couple hours every once in a while (at least 2 times a month!)
2. Once kids are in bed (EVERY NIGHT!!) make special time for your husband. Pour yourself a glass of wine and grab him a beer, TURN OFF THE TV!
3. Listen to him! Ask him to tell you about his day.
4. HAVE SEX WITH HIM!!! Even when you don't feel like it. MEN NEED SEX! It's a fact of life and if you do not have sex with him he will find someone who will.
5. Initiate sex...Don't make him be the one to beg for it all the time. If you are too tired at night then wake him up in the morning with a surprise.
6. Probably most important Quit B'ching all the time. Most men feel like they work all day (usually not a lot of fun) then they come home and their wife is nagging and complaining - then they simply find someone to turn to that just is a pleasure to be with - someone who is happy to see them, never complains, and makes love to them.
If you do not want to be a single mother then I suggest you take care of your husband. And in turn be sure he takes care of you! I would assume he still loves you and wants it to work out right now so you must change these things immediatly! A trial separation is an easy way to say he's done.Need advice on how to balance husband and kids.?
Trial separations are never there to remember the love, there are to see how you feel on your own, and more than likely, you are going to be taking care of the kids yourself during this 'trial separation' and he is going to be pretty happy! Don't do it. If he wants to stay together and there are major issues, see a marriage counselor. If there are minor issues, find a baby sitter and spend some time together, go out on dates, etc. Its not that hard to find a baby sitter.... parents of your children's friends, siblings, cousins, neices, nephews, grandparents, or put an ad in the paper if you need to.
Sometimes time apart is a good thing maybe for your marraige you should give it a try it is a good way of spicing things back up again
Your husband wants a divorce but is too coward to tell you so. How in Sam Hell is getting seperated supposed to bring you closer together? He is lying. You need to get a babysitter and have more time together as a couple---check your local highschool and see if they have a list of kids looking for sitter jobs. But at any rate, how is being apart going to help you remember the love you feel? I don't understand that---he is looking for seperation here. It sounds like marriage counseling is needed, but you need to get a sitter for that. Or, have date night at home! Feed the kids, put them to bed, and then make a nice dinner or get take out and talk, and then rent a movie or take it into the bedroom for some one on one. It's just never a good sign when a man wants a seperation. Caution!
Maybe you should try being alone TOGETHER before being alone apart? That would make sense. Why is your husband so quick to give up? Find a babysitter and spend a weekend away, see if that works. If not, kick his a$$ for giving up so easily.
Quit your job and be a SAHM.
He is stupid get some counselling it is common knowledge
the trial seperations cause more harm then good. You should never agree to this does he want this so he can have a fling without you getting pissed. I think you need to ask yourself this question why on earth does my husband want this. You do not say how old your kids are do they have friends and are they old enough for a sleep over?. maybe send to the grandparents for a couple of days a rekindle the flames of passion in you marriage.
FIND GOD AND PRAYER.
he wants another woman. wants the sep to do it and not feel guilty
sounds fishy to me..! trial seperation for what??? i mean come on with kids what the hell does he excpect...lol..
tell him to help u with the kids more..that would give u some free time!
it can't be THAT hard to get a sitter...ask friends, family, friends kids...your marriage did not end when you had kids, you still have to put each other first BEFORE the kids if you want them to grow up with married parents. And honestly I don't think a simple ';date night'; is going to save anything at this point if he's talking about separating. If you two do work it out I would suggest staying on top of things so that you don't need to separate to ';remember the love'; too often...
Sounds to me like your husband has a girlfriend or is looking for one. Men need attention and will find it where it is available. And it is not just sexual attention they crave, they also want to feel connected emotionally %26amp; intellectually.
1. Give the kids a bedtime and be firm about it. My daughter is 9 and goes to bed every night at 8:30 (Lights out and tv off at 9:30). Find a babysitter (quit making excuses!) your mom, his mom, a sister, cousin, neighbor - someone will watch your children for a couple hours every once in a while (at least 2 times a month!)
2. Once kids are in bed (EVERY NIGHT!!) make special time for your husband. Pour yourself a glass of wine and grab him a beer, TURN OFF THE TV!
3. Listen to him! Ask him to tell you about his day.
4. HAVE SEX WITH HIM!!! Even when you don't feel like it. MEN NEED SEX! It's a fact of life and if you do not have sex with him he will find someone who will.
5. Initiate sex...Don't make him be the one to beg for it all the time. If you are too tired at night then wake him up in the morning with a surprise.
6. Probably most important Quit B'ching all the time. Most men feel like they work all day (usually not a lot of fun) then they come home and their wife is nagging and complaining - then they simply find someone to turn to that just is a pleasure to be with - someone who is happy to see them, never complains, and makes love to them.
If you do not want to be a single mother then I suggest you take care of your husband. And in turn be sure he takes care of you! I would assume he still loves you and wants it to work out right now so you must change these things immediatly! A trial separation is an easy way to say he's done.Need advice on how to balance husband and kids.?
Trial separations are never there to remember the love, there are to see how you feel on your own, and more than likely, you are going to be taking care of the kids yourself during this 'trial separation' and he is going to be pretty happy! Don't do it. If he wants to stay together and there are major issues, see a marriage counselor. If there are minor issues, find a baby sitter and spend some time together, go out on dates, etc. Its not that hard to find a baby sitter.... parents of your children's friends, siblings, cousins, neices, nephews, grandparents, or put an ad in the paper if you need to.
Sometimes time apart is a good thing maybe for your marraige you should give it a try it is a good way of spicing things back up again
Your husband wants a divorce but is too coward to tell you so. How in Sam Hell is getting seperated supposed to bring you closer together? He is lying. You need to get a babysitter and have more time together as a couple---check your local highschool and see if they have a list of kids looking for sitter jobs. But at any rate, how is being apart going to help you remember the love you feel? I don't understand that---he is looking for seperation here. It sounds like marriage counseling is needed, but you need to get a sitter for that. Or, have date night at home! Feed the kids, put them to bed, and then make a nice dinner or get take out and talk, and then rent a movie or take it into the bedroom for some one on one. It's just never a good sign when a man wants a seperation. Caution!
Maybe you should try being alone TOGETHER before being alone apart? That would make sense. Why is your husband so quick to give up? Find a babysitter and spend a weekend away, see if that works. If not, kick his a$$ for giving up so easily.
Quit your job and be a SAHM.
He is stupid get some counselling it is common knowledge
the trial seperations cause more harm then good. You should never agree to this does he want this so he can have a fling without you getting pissed. I think you need to ask yourself this question why on earth does my husband want this. You do not say how old your kids are do they have friends and are they old enough for a sleep over?. maybe send to the grandparents for a couple of days a rekindle the flames of passion in you marriage.
FIND GOD AND PRAYER.
he wants another woman. wants the sep to do it and not feel guilty
sounds fishy to me..! trial seperation for what??? i mean come on with kids what the hell does he excpect...lol..
tell him to help u with the kids more..that would give u some free time!
it can't be THAT hard to get a sitter...ask friends, family, friends kids...your marriage did not end when you had kids, you still have to put each other first BEFORE the kids if you want them to grow up with married parents. And honestly I don't think a simple ';date night'; is going to save anything at this point if he's talking about separating. If you two do work it out I would suggest staying on top of things so that you don't need to separate to ';remember the love'; too often...
Any advice on how to remove hair dye from your skin eg. ears,neck,forehead.?
Toothpaste is used for cleaning a number of surfaces other than teeth, and many people have found toothpaste to work well at removing dye from the hands, ears, neck, and face. Toothpaste doesn't work for everyone, but it's worth a try since toothpaste is cheap and readily accessibleAny advice on how to remove hair dye from your skin eg. ears,neck,forehead.?
If you go to a beauty supply store i.e. Sally's,etc. there are dye removing pads you can buy for like $3.00. These should help.Any advice on how to remove hair dye from your skin eg. ears,neck,forehead.?
Usually washing with soapsuds mixed with hydogen peroxide will take it off.
Also to avoid getting it on: Put petrolum jelly all along the edge of your hairline and on your ears before you color.
Eye Makeup remover will take it off, I use this all the time on my clients. BE CAREFUL next time.
Take some of the left over dye and rub it in to the affected area and take some cloth or towel and wipe away.
If you go to a beauty supply store i.e. Sally's,etc. there are dye removing pads you can buy for like $3.00. These should help.Any advice on how to remove hair dye from your skin eg. ears,neck,forehead.?
Usually washing with soapsuds mixed with hydogen peroxide will take it off.
Also to avoid getting it on: Put petrolum jelly all along the edge of your hairline and on your ears before you color.
Eye Makeup remover will take it off, I use this all the time on my clients. BE CAREFUL next time.
Take some of the left over dye and rub it in to the affected area and take some cloth or towel and wipe away.
Any advice on how to run a 5k? This is my first.?
Ok so I'm a pretty seasoned runner who plays soccer, and I do x-country and track and field. Tomorrow is my first 5k race which I signed up for only 3 days ago, so I haven't really had a long time to prepare, but I think I'm up to the challenge. I am a pretty fast person who can do a 5:10 mile on dirt and last year in cross-country I won the gold medal in the league final with a 10:22 in a 1.9 mile course. Anybody have any good last-minute advice they can give me for this 5k? Should I not go out super hard in the very beginning but build up? Or should I sustain a good pace throughout?
BTW: I'm in 8th grade and if I want to win my division in this 5k race I need at least a 16:35-16-45Any advice on how to run a 5k? This is my first.?
First...your times are really great for your age! Keep up the good work.
The best thing you can do now is to relax. Don't spend any useless energy worrying or getting nervous before the race. Before the race starts, go some gentle stretching and light striders...nothing too strenuous. Take deep breaths and relax. During the first mile, go out as if you're holding 10% back (in reality, you'll probably be doing your goal pace...but we all go out too fast and pay for it in the end). At the first mile mark shoot for a 5:30-5:40...you can make up those extra 15 second during the next two miles. Best of luck!
- MikeAny advice on how to run a 5k? This is my first.?
Hey everybody, I won my division (men's 14-18) in the 5k with a 16:31! I was even third place overall in the entire race, behind two adults who were marathoners! Thanks for all the help!!!
That is a fantastic goal for 8th grade! You are going to have to go out a little fast, because high schoolers have a tendency to slow during a race. The average pace for a 16:45 is 5:25 per mile. One thing that may make it easier for you to be comfortable during the race is to run with the competition. You stated that you wanted to win your division. Go out with the lead competition, and run behind them making them take the wind, and for you to follow someone and match their speed. With 100-200 meters to go try to go past them confidently, get on your toes and out sprint them to the finish line. If they are fast, your time will be faster.
Runners World has a training program for all length of races called smartcoach and it designs the program according to your personal needs
WWW.runnersworld.com
keep up the good work, breath and think of the finniosh line. if you get tired dont stop running just slow down to a working pace run to stay in the rythum
Start at a comfortable speed and build up on it.
When your endorphines kick in you will want to increase your speed naturally.
Let us know how you did tomorrow ok?
good luck.
i read a book about about a coach that was harsh but helped his runners a lot......this might sound cheesy but...........the goal is to run with your heart and push yourself to a limit that you have never gone to before
BTW: I'm in 8th grade and if I want to win my division in this 5k race I need at least a 16:35-16-45Any advice on how to run a 5k? This is my first.?
First...your times are really great for your age! Keep up the good work.
The best thing you can do now is to relax. Don't spend any useless energy worrying or getting nervous before the race. Before the race starts, go some gentle stretching and light striders...nothing too strenuous. Take deep breaths and relax. During the first mile, go out as if you're holding 10% back (in reality, you'll probably be doing your goal pace...but we all go out too fast and pay for it in the end). At the first mile mark shoot for a 5:30-5:40...you can make up those extra 15 second during the next two miles. Best of luck!
- MikeAny advice on how to run a 5k? This is my first.?
Hey everybody, I won my division (men's 14-18) in the 5k with a 16:31! I was even third place overall in the entire race, behind two adults who were marathoners! Thanks for all the help!!!
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That is a fantastic goal for 8th grade! You are going to have to go out a little fast, because high schoolers have a tendency to slow during a race. The average pace for a 16:45 is 5:25 per mile. One thing that may make it easier for you to be comfortable during the race is to run with the competition. You stated that you wanted to win your division. Go out with the lead competition, and run behind them making them take the wind, and for you to follow someone and match their speed. With 100-200 meters to go try to go past them confidently, get on your toes and out sprint them to the finish line. If they are fast, your time will be faster.
Runners World has a training program for all length of races called smartcoach and it designs the program according to your personal needs
WWW.runnersworld.com
keep up the good work, breath and think of the finniosh line. if you get tired dont stop running just slow down to a working pace run to stay in the rythum
Start at a comfortable speed and build up on it.
When your endorphines kick in you will want to increase your speed naturally.
Let us know how you did tomorrow ok?
good luck.
i read a book about about a coach that was harsh but helped his runners a lot......this might sound cheesy but...........the goal is to run with your heart and push yourself to a limit that you have never gone to before
Need advice on how to balance husband and kids.?
okay, my husband thinks that we need a trial separation to try to remember the love, need and want of eachother. He says that we don't know eachother anymore. It's hard to get a babysitter so date night is out unless we have it at home. Advice please!!!Need advice on how to balance husband and kids.?
Sounds to me like your husband has a girlfriend or is looking for one. Men need attention and will find it where it is available. And it is not just sexual attention they crave, they also want to feel connected emotionally %26amp; intellectually.
1. Give the kids a bedtime and be firm about it. My daughter is 9 and goes to bed every night at 8:30 (Lights out and tv off at 9:30). Find a babysitter (quit making excuses!) your mom, his mom, a sister, cousin, neighbor - someone will watch your children for a couple hours every once in a while (at least 2 times a month!)
2. Once kids are in bed (EVERY NIGHT!!) make special time for your husband. Pour yourself a glass of wine and grab him a beer, TURN OFF THE TV!
3. Listen to him! Ask him to tell you about his day.
4. HAVE SEX WITH HIM!!! Even when you don't feel like it. MEN NEED SEX! It's a fact of life and if you do not have sex with him he will find someone who will.
5. Initiate sex...Don't make him be the one to beg for it all the time. If you are too tired at night then wake him up in the morning with a surprise.
6. Probably most important Quit B'ching all the time. Most men feel like they work all day (usually not a lot of fun) then they come home and their wife is nagging and complaining - then they simply find someone to turn to that just is a pleasure to be with - someone who is happy to see them, never complains, and makes love to them.
If you do not want to be a single mother then I suggest you take care of your husband. And in turn be sure he takes care of you! I would assume he still loves you and wants it to work out right now so you must change these things immediatly! A trial separation is an easy way to say he's done.Need advice on how to balance husband and kids.?
Trial separations are never there to remember the love, there are to see how you feel on your own, and more than likely, you are going to be taking care of the kids yourself during this 'trial separation' and he is going to be pretty happy! Don't do it. If he wants to stay together and there are major issues, see a marriage counselor. If there are minor issues, find a baby sitter and spend some time together, go out on dates, etc. Its not that hard to find a baby sitter.... parents of your children's friends, siblings, cousins, neices, nephews, grandparents, or put an ad in the paper if you need to.
Sometimes time apart is a good thing maybe for your marraige you should give it a try it is a good way of spicing things back up again
Your husband wants a divorce but is too coward to tell you so. How in Sam Hell is getting seperated supposed to bring you closer together? He is lying. You need to get a babysitter and have more time together as a couple---check your local highschool and see if they have a list of kids looking for sitter jobs. But at any rate, how is being apart going to help you remember the love you feel? I don't understand that---he is looking for seperation here. It sounds like marriage counseling is needed, but you need to get a sitter for that. Or, have date night at home! Feed the kids, put them to bed, and then make a nice dinner or get take out and talk, and then rent a movie or take it into the bedroom for some one on one. It's just never a good sign when a man wants a seperation. Caution!
Maybe you should try being alone TOGETHER before being alone apart? That would make sense. Why is your husband so quick to give up? Find a babysitter and spend a weekend away, see if that works. If not, kick his a$$ for giving up so easily.
Quit your job and be a SAHM.
He is stupid get some counselling it is common knowledge
the trial seperations cause more harm then good. You should never agree to this does he want this so he can have a fling without you getting pissed. I think you need to ask yourself this question why on earth does my husband want this. You do not say how old your kids are do they have friends and are they old enough for a sleep over?. maybe send to the grandparents for a couple of days a rekindle the flames of passion in you marriage.
FIND GOD AND PRAYER.
he wants another woman. wants the sep to do it and not feel guilty
sounds fishy to me..! trial seperation for what??? i mean come on with kids what the hell does he excpect...lol..
tell him to help u with the kids more..that would give u some free time!
it can't be THAT hard to get a sitter...ask friends, family, friends kids...your marriage did not end when you had kids, you still have to put each other first BEFORE the kids if you want them to grow up with married parents. And honestly I don't think a simple ';date night'; is going to save anything at this point if he's talking about separating. If you two do work it out I would suggest staying on top of things so that you don't need to separate to ';remember the love'; too often...
Sounds to me like your husband has a girlfriend or is looking for one. Men need attention and will find it where it is available. And it is not just sexual attention they crave, they also want to feel connected emotionally %26amp; intellectually.
1. Give the kids a bedtime and be firm about it. My daughter is 9 and goes to bed every night at 8:30 (Lights out and tv off at 9:30). Find a babysitter (quit making excuses!) your mom, his mom, a sister, cousin, neighbor - someone will watch your children for a couple hours every once in a while (at least 2 times a month!)
2. Once kids are in bed (EVERY NIGHT!!) make special time for your husband. Pour yourself a glass of wine and grab him a beer, TURN OFF THE TV!
3. Listen to him! Ask him to tell you about his day.
4. HAVE SEX WITH HIM!!! Even when you don't feel like it. MEN NEED SEX! It's a fact of life and if you do not have sex with him he will find someone who will.
5. Initiate sex...Don't make him be the one to beg for it all the time. If you are too tired at night then wake him up in the morning with a surprise.
6. Probably most important Quit B'ching all the time. Most men feel like they work all day (usually not a lot of fun) then they come home and their wife is nagging and complaining - then they simply find someone to turn to that just is a pleasure to be with - someone who is happy to see them, never complains, and makes love to them.
If you do not want to be a single mother then I suggest you take care of your husband. And in turn be sure he takes care of you! I would assume he still loves you and wants it to work out right now so you must change these things immediatly! A trial separation is an easy way to say he's done.Need advice on how to balance husband and kids.?
Trial separations are never there to remember the love, there are to see how you feel on your own, and more than likely, you are going to be taking care of the kids yourself during this 'trial separation' and he is going to be pretty happy! Don't do it. If he wants to stay together and there are major issues, see a marriage counselor. If there are minor issues, find a baby sitter and spend some time together, go out on dates, etc. Its not that hard to find a baby sitter.... parents of your children's friends, siblings, cousins, neices, nephews, grandparents, or put an ad in the paper if you need to.
Sometimes time apart is a good thing maybe for your marraige you should give it a try it is a good way of spicing things back up again
Your husband wants a divorce but is too coward to tell you so. How in Sam Hell is getting seperated supposed to bring you closer together? He is lying. You need to get a babysitter and have more time together as a couple---check your local highschool and see if they have a list of kids looking for sitter jobs. But at any rate, how is being apart going to help you remember the love you feel? I don't understand that---he is looking for seperation here. It sounds like marriage counseling is needed, but you need to get a sitter for that. Or, have date night at home! Feed the kids, put them to bed, and then make a nice dinner or get take out and talk, and then rent a movie or take it into the bedroom for some one on one. It's just never a good sign when a man wants a seperation. Caution!
Maybe you should try being alone TOGETHER before being alone apart? That would make sense. Why is your husband so quick to give up? Find a babysitter and spend a weekend away, see if that works. If not, kick his a$$ for giving up so easily.
Quit your job and be a SAHM.
He is stupid get some counselling it is common knowledge
the trial seperations cause more harm then good. You should never agree to this does he want this so he can have a fling without you getting pissed. I think you need to ask yourself this question why on earth does my husband want this. You do not say how old your kids are do they have friends and are they old enough for a sleep over?. maybe send to the grandparents for a couple of days a rekindle the flames of passion in you marriage.
FIND GOD AND PRAYER.
he wants another woman. wants the sep to do it and not feel guilty
sounds fishy to me..! trial seperation for what??? i mean come on with kids what the hell does he excpect...lol..
tell him to help u with the kids more..that would give u some free time!
it can't be THAT hard to get a sitter...ask friends, family, friends kids...your marriage did not end when you had kids, you still have to put each other first BEFORE the kids if you want them to grow up with married parents. And honestly I don't think a simple ';date night'; is going to save anything at this point if he's talking about separating. If you two do work it out I would suggest staying on top of things so that you don't need to separate to ';remember the love'; too often...
Any advice on how to stop crushing on someone?
crush on someone else!Any advice on how to stop crushing on someone?
Keep yourself busy busy busy. Find someone else unless you are the type to ';rebound';.Any advice on how to stop crushing on someone?
Ya can't fight the feeling. But you can ignore it. As long as you've determined it's just a crush, then and you know that you don't want to be in it, just don't act on it. The second step is to move on. And viola~ you just conquered getting over a crush!
Block them out of your head completely, keep yourself busy. Find someone new to have a crush on. It always helps to find a replacement.
You just have to ride it out until the next crush catches your eye.
think of something on his/her appearance or attitude that you don't like
or have a crush on someone else
Keep yourself busy busy busy. Find someone else unless you are the type to ';rebound';.Any advice on how to stop crushing on someone?
Ya can't fight the feeling. But you can ignore it. As long as you've determined it's just a crush, then and you know that you don't want to be in it, just don't act on it. The second step is to move on. And viola~ you just conquered getting over a crush!
Block them out of your head completely, keep yourself busy. Find someone new to have a crush on. It always helps to find a replacement.
You just have to ride it out until the next crush catches your eye.
think of something on his/her appearance or attitude that you don't like
or have a crush on someone else
Any advice on how to remove hair dye from your skin eg. ears,neck,forehead.?
Toothpaste is used for cleaning a number of surfaces other than teeth, and many people have found toothpaste to work well at removing dye from the hands, ears, neck, and face. Toothpaste doesn't work for everyone, but it's worth a try since toothpaste is cheap and readily accessibleAny advice on how to remove hair dye from your skin eg. ears,neck,forehead.?
If you go to a beauty supply store i.e. Sally's,etc. there are dye removing pads you can buy for like $3.00. These should help.Any advice on how to remove hair dye from your skin eg. ears,neck,forehead.?
Usually washing with soapsuds mixed with hydogen peroxide will take it off.
Also to avoid getting it on: Put petrolum jelly all along the edge of your hairline and on your ears before you color.
Eye Makeup remover will take it off, I use this all the time on my clients. BE CAREFUL next time.
Take some of the left over dye and rub it in to the affected area and take some cloth or towel and wipe away.new makeup
If you go to a beauty supply store i.e. Sally's,etc. there are dye removing pads you can buy for like $3.00. These should help.Any advice on how to remove hair dye from your skin eg. ears,neck,forehead.?
Usually washing with soapsuds mixed with hydogen peroxide will take it off.
Also to avoid getting it on: Put petrolum jelly all along the edge of your hairline and on your ears before you color.
Eye Makeup remover will take it off, I use this all the time on my clients. BE CAREFUL next time.
Take some of the left over dye and rub it in to the affected area and take some cloth or towel and wipe away.
Any advice on how to run a 5k? This is my first.?
Ok so I'm a pretty seasoned runner who plays soccer, and I do x-country and track and field. Tomorrow is my first 5k race which I signed up for only 3 days ago, so I haven't really had a long time to prepare, but I think I'm up to the challenge. I am a pretty fast person who can do a 5:10 mile on dirt and last year in cross-country I won the gold medal in the league final with a 10:22 in a 1.9 mile course. Anybody have any good last-minute advice they can give me for this 5k? Should I not go out super hard in the very beginning but build up? Or should I sustain a good pace throughout?
BTW: I'm in 8th grade and if I want to win my division in this 5k race I need at least a 16:35-16-45Any advice on how to run a 5k? This is my first.?
First...your times are really great for your age! Keep up the good work.
The best thing you can do now is to relax. Don't spend any useless energy worrying or getting nervous before the race. Before the race starts, go some gentle stretching and light striders...nothing too strenuous. Take deep breaths and relax. During the first mile, go out as if you're holding 10% back (in reality, you'll probably be doing your goal pace...but we all go out too fast and pay for it in the end). At the first mile mark shoot for a 5:30-5:40...you can make up those extra 15 second during the next two miles. Best of luck!
- MikeAny advice on how to run a 5k? This is my first.?
Hey everybody, I won my division (men's 14-18) in the 5k with a 16:31! I was even third place overall in the entire race, behind two adults who were marathoners! Thanks for all the help!!!
That is a fantastic goal for 8th grade! You are going to have to go out a little fast, because high schoolers have a tendency to slow during a race. The average pace for a 16:45 is 5:25 per mile. One thing that may make it easier for you to be comfortable during the race is to run with the competition. You stated that you wanted to win your division. Go out with the lead competition, and run behind them making them take the wind, and for you to follow someone and match their speed. With 100-200 meters to go try to go past them confidently, get on your toes and out sprint them to the finish line. If they are fast, your time will be faster.
Runners World has a training program for all length of races called smartcoach and it designs the program according to your personal needs
WWW.runnersworld.com
keep up the good work, breath and think of the finniosh line. if you get tired dont stop running just slow down to a working pace run to stay in the rythum
Start at a comfortable speed and build up on it.
When your endorphines kick in you will want to increase your speed naturally.
Let us know how you did tomorrow ok?
good luck.
i read a book about about a coach that was harsh but helped his runners a lot......this might sound cheesy but...........the goal is to run with your heart and push yourself to a limit that you have never gone to before
BTW: I'm in 8th grade and if I want to win my division in this 5k race I need at least a 16:35-16-45Any advice on how to run a 5k? This is my first.?
First...your times are really great for your age! Keep up the good work.
The best thing you can do now is to relax. Don't spend any useless energy worrying or getting nervous before the race. Before the race starts, go some gentle stretching and light striders...nothing too strenuous. Take deep breaths and relax. During the first mile, go out as if you're holding 10% back (in reality, you'll probably be doing your goal pace...but we all go out too fast and pay for it in the end). At the first mile mark shoot for a 5:30-5:40...you can make up those extra 15 second during the next two miles. Best of luck!
- MikeAny advice on how to run a 5k? This is my first.?
Hey everybody, I won my division (men's 14-18) in the 5k with a 16:31! I was even third place overall in the entire race, behind two adults who were marathoners! Thanks for all the help!!!
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That is a fantastic goal for 8th grade! You are going to have to go out a little fast, because high schoolers have a tendency to slow during a race. The average pace for a 16:45 is 5:25 per mile. One thing that may make it easier for you to be comfortable during the race is to run with the competition. You stated that you wanted to win your division. Go out with the lead competition, and run behind them making them take the wind, and for you to follow someone and match their speed. With 100-200 meters to go try to go past them confidently, get on your toes and out sprint them to the finish line. If they are fast, your time will be faster.
Runners World has a training program for all length of races called smartcoach and it designs the program according to your personal needs
WWW.runnersworld.com
keep up the good work, breath and think of the finniosh line. if you get tired dont stop running just slow down to a working pace run to stay in the rythum
Start at a comfortable speed and build up on it.
When your endorphines kick in you will want to increase your speed naturally.
Let us know how you did tomorrow ok?
good luck.
i read a book about about a coach that was harsh but helped his runners a lot......this might sound cheesy but...........the goal is to run with your heart and push yourself to a limit that you have never gone to before
I'm always late....I really want to ask if anyone could offer advice on how to achieve better punctuality.?
I appreciate anything anyone has to offer....sorry I have to run I'm late.I'm always late....I really want to ask if anyone could offer advice on how to achieve better punctuality.?
set all your clocks 15 minutes fast ... so when you think you are leaving the house at 6:30 it's really 6:15.I'm always late....I really want to ask if anyone could offer advice on how to achieve better punctuality.?
The things on not being late for anything is advance planning. Advance planning involve preparationtime ,allowance for transportation waiting time, travel time, allowance for traffic jam time, last but not least, discipline to follow the above guidelines (most important)
What worked for me is to really question what the good points were to my being late. For me, I realized that I didn't like arriving first somewhere: what would I do while I waited for others? Being alone made me feel abandoned. What changed for me was when I had a best friend who was always on time. One time, I prepared a dinner party for 14 people. My friend was on time and everyone else was a half hour late or more. I realized I wanted to be more like my friend. Now I enjoy being early or on time. I don't feel rushed or anxious, and sometimes I have a few moments just to myself to relax, maybe read the menu or people watch. I've completely changed.
I also took a one-day course from www.franklincovey.com, and they made some really good arguments for being on time. Basically, are you good to your word or not? When you say to someone that you will be somewhere at a certain time, you're giving your word. If you're not reliable on this one thing, why should they trust you on anything else?
maybe you could wake up earlier...
set all your clocks 15 minutes fast ... so when you think you are leaving the house at 6:30 it's really 6:15.I'm always late....I really want to ask if anyone could offer advice on how to achieve better punctuality.?
The things on not being late for anything is advance planning. Advance planning involve preparationtime ,allowance for transportation waiting time, travel time, allowance for traffic jam time, last but not least, discipline to follow the above guidelines (most important)
What worked for me is to really question what the good points were to my being late. For me, I realized that I didn't like arriving first somewhere: what would I do while I waited for others? Being alone made me feel abandoned. What changed for me was when I had a best friend who was always on time. One time, I prepared a dinner party for 14 people. My friend was on time and everyone else was a half hour late or more. I realized I wanted to be more like my friend. Now I enjoy being early or on time. I don't feel rushed or anxious, and sometimes I have a few moments just to myself to relax, maybe read the menu or people watch. I've completely changed.
I also took a one-day course from www.franklincovey.com, and they made some really good arguments for being on time. Basically, are you good to your word or not? When you say to someone that you will be somewhere at a certain time, you're giving your word. If you're not reliable on this one thing, why should they trust you on anything else?
maybe you could wake up earlier...
Any advice on how to be less shy and be outgoing? ?
I am not that shy ,but i just don't know what to say to girls to start up a conversation.
I think of things to say ,but they sound stupid so i just don't say much.
should I just use small talk ? like hey how are you?
also what is a way to be more outgoing?
I am going to start to work out .
I joined a car club to meet new people .
what else can i do?Any advice on how to be less shy and be outgoing? ?
Its great joining clubs to meet new people but are you wanting to meet new people? or new girls? because I don't think that there is a huge list of girls wanting to join a car club. I would say the best way to be outgoing and less shy is by being around people that make you feel more comfortable so this way when your out with them you already know that they make you feel more comfortable and this way you may feel a little more confident in what you do or say. The best way to get notice is by the way you dress and by the way you smell buy cologne, but don't shower yourself with it. I will never forget what this girl once said to me when I wore my cologne at work. She said, '; Hey you always know the right amount of cologne to put on because cologne is best when discovered not when you can smell it 100 yards away.'; The gym is a very good place to meet new people and new girls for sure. Do you like sports join a league or club, because someone on your team will have a girlfriend and she is going to go to all the games to support her man. Well she is going to drag her friend to go with her so she won't get bored and its going to be a single friend most of the time because why would a girl with a boyfriend want to go watch sports that her man is not playing for. A single girl would say yes because its a bunch of guys and she probably didn't have any plans herself. I think these are some good starts to get good with conversations and getting girls.Any advice on how to be less shy and be outgoing? ?
be more open if you see a hot girl walk by ask her something like do you have the time? start up a conversation! don't be scared or shy you'll never kno what's out there til you discover it! whatever comes out of your mouth is what suppose to come out just say it sum of us girls love dem silly guys
Are you in school/college? If so it might be a good idea to join some student groups that force you to speak with others. You might be shy at first, but if its something that you're interested in you might find after a while that you have an easier time talking to people.
If not, you might want to consider asking questions that involve the other party to give detailed answers. You can even start small, by asking someone where they grew up, then asking what it was like there - what it was near, things to do, etc. Keep asking questions to learn about the other person and then hopefully they will ask you things about yourself. If you're shy I would suggest starting a convo with someone who is considered a ';friend'; and not a person of special interest....baby steps!
Good luck! And who cares if you sound stupid? If you're paranoid about what other people think of you and what you're saying, it makes it impossible for you to be more outgoing! You need to have confidence in yourself and until you do, you will continue to be shy!
I think of things to say ,but they sound stupid so i just don't say much.
should I just use small talk ? like hey how are you?
also what is a way to be more outgoing?
I am going to start to work out .
I joined a car club to meet new people .
what else can i do?Any advice on how to be less shy and be outgoing? ?
Its great joining clubs to meet new people but are you wanting to meet new people? or new girls? because I don't think that there is a huge list of girls wanting to join a car club. I would say the best way to be outgoing and less shy is by being around people that make you feel more comfortable so this way when your out with them you already know that they make you feel more comfortable and this way you may feel a little more confident in what you do or say. The best way to get notice is by the way you dress and by the way you smell buy cologne, but don't shower yourself with it. I will never forget what this girl once said to me when I wore my cologne at work. She said, '; Hey you always know the right amount of cologne to put on because cologne is best when discovered not when you can smell it 100 yards away.'; The gym is a very good place to meet new people and new girls for sure. Do you like sports join a league or club, because someone on your team will have a girlfriend and she is going to go to all the games to support her man. Well she is going to drag her friend to go with her so she won't get bored and its going to be a single friend most of the time because why would a girl with a boyfriend want to go watch sports that her man is not playing for. A single girl would say yes because its a bunch of guys and she probably didn't have any plans herself. I think these are some good starts to get good with conversations and getting girls.Any advice on how to be less shy and be outgoing? ?
be more open if you see a hot girl walk by ask her something like do you have the time? start up a conversation! don't be scared or shy you'll never kno what's out there til you discover it! whatever comes out of your mouth is what suppose to come out just say it sum of us girls love dem silly guys
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Are you in school/college? If so it might be a good idea to join some student groups that force you to speak with others. You might be shy at first, but if its something that you're interested in you might find after a while that you have an easier time talking to people.
If not, you might want to consider asking questions that involve the other party to give detailed answers. You can even start small, by asking someone where they grew up, then asking what it was like there - what it was near, things to do, etc. Keep asking questions to learn about the other person and then hopefully they will ask you things about yourself. If you're shy I would suggest starting a convo with someone who is considered a ';friend'; and not a person of special interest....baby steps!
Good luck! And who cares if you sound stupid? If you're paranoid about what other people think of you and what you're saying, it makes it impossible for you to be more outgoing! You need to have confidence in yourself and until you do, you will continue to be shy!
Any advice on how to get over shyness?
im 14 and im still shy....i also tend to get more shy around guys(i know this has probably been asked a lot, LOL, but i really want to overcome being shy)
i do have self-confidence..but sometimes i don't look confident on the outside
sometimes i have trouble making friends..either because im too quiet or often keep secrets to myself
im worried that in high school ill still be like this and i won't have as many friends.
any advice on making new friends and putting yourself out there?
anyone else like this?
if you could help i would really appreciate it..thanks SO much.. =)Any advice on how to get over shyness?
just yell....express ur self by doing what u want, ask ur friends to introduce u to other people but to get started think of what ur going to say and remember some good topics to talk aboutAny advice on how to get over shyness?
i would have just messaged u but u dont allow any messages lol
if u do want to talk message me
Next year as school begins, join a club you are interested in. Yearbook, newspaper, student council, math club, science, whatever you like. This will give you a small group of potential friends with whom to find a comfort level. Once you can get rid of some of your shyness with a small group, you can begin to move on to larger groups. Read Y/A and see just how many more people are just as shy or worse off than you. This will be true in your school as well. Good Luck.
I'm 18 and I'm still shy... and I also tend to get more shy around guys! Some people are just naturally shy, or as I prefer to call it ';reserved.'; It is good that you can keep secrets! That means that you are trustworthy, one of the best qualities anyone could ever ask for in a friend! Just be yourself and smile! Smile a lot!!! That helps. People like people who smile. Be honest. Stand up for the underdogs. Be kind. Don't get into trouble (you don't want the wrong kind of friends.) Just remember that it is not the number of friends that you have that counts, but how good the friends that you do have are. One or two people who look out for you and have your best interests at heart are a whole lot better than being friends with a whole lot of people who would stab you in the back the minute they thought they would be better off for it.
You are young but no matter. All it involves is making eye contact and that self-confidence will shine through. If you find yourself keeping things to yourself, try telling your friends other things that don't involve whatever you don't want to talk about. Surround yourself with people you want to be around not just people you want to be seen with. You will do fine.
just think to yourself: theres nothing to be shy of, its not like i did anything wrong, i can be myself
i do have self-confidence..but sometimes i don't look confident on the outside
sometimes i have trouble making friends..either because im too quiet or often keep secrets to myself
im worried that in high school ill still be like this and i won't have as many friends.
any advice on making new friends and putting yourself out there?
anyone else like this?
if you could help i would really appreciate it..thanks SO much.. =)Any advice on how to get over shyness?
just yell....express ur self by doing what u want, ask ur friends to introduce u to other people but to get started think of what ur going to say and remember some good topics to talk aboutAny advice on how to get over shyness?
i would have just messaged u but u dont allow any messages lol
if u do want to talk message me
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Next year as school begins, join a club you are interested in. Yearbook, newspaper, student council, math club, science, whatever you like. This will give you a small group of potential friends with whom to find a comfort level. Once you can get rid of some of your shyness with a small group, you can begin to move on to larger groups. Read Y/A and see just how many more people are just as shy or worse off than you. This will be true in your school as well. Good Luck.
I'm 18 and I'm still shy... and I also tend to get more shy around guys! Some people are just naturally shy, or as I prefer to call it ';reserved.'; It is good that you can keep secrets! That means that you are trustworthy, one of the best qualities anyone could ever ask for in a friend! Just be yourself and smile! Smile a lot!!! That helps. People like people who smile. Be honest. Stand up for the underdogs. Be kind. Don't get into trouble (you don't want the wrong kind of friends.) Just remember that it is not the number of friends that you have that counts, but how good the friends that you do have are. One or two people who look out for you and have your best interests at heart are a whole lot better than being friends with a whole lot of people who would stab you in the back the minute they thought they would be better off for it.
You are young but no matter. All it involves is making eye contact and that self-confidence will shine through. If you find yourself keeping things to yourself, try telling your friends other things that don't involve whatever you don't want to talk about. Surround yourself with people you want to be around not just people you want to be seen with. You will do fine.
just think to yourself: theres nothing to be shy of, its not like i did anything wrong, i can be myself
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