Tuesday, November 22, 2011

How did you? or advice on how to get over a break up?

What did you do to help you. or do you just have ideas to help you move on.How did you? or advice on how to get over a break up?
I spent a lot more time with my friends and family and did a lot of other things to get over him. I started working out more which gives your body a chemical that makes you happy. To move on just kind of ';fish around';. Start flirting with other guys and see what happens. The nest one could be right around the corner.How did you? or advice on how to get over a break up?
i could use that awnser aswel...
Cry until you can't cry any more and move on. Know that there is someone better out there for you and spend lots of time with your friends and family while you're single because no matter who comes in and out of your life your family and real friends will always be around. In no time you will forget all about whatshisname and run into Mr. Wow!
you have to realize it obviously wasn't meant to be. so life is too short to chase after someone who doesn't wanna be chased. you'll just end up being too busy with him to see mr. right walking by right infront of you. if that made any sense to you? lol.
lean on your friends. they should be there for you in your time of need. if he broke up with you, try to figure out if you made any contributions to his decisions. if so, figure out if its something you can change (for future reference) or if he had no right to place that/those demand(s) on you. No matter what, learn to grow from the experience.
I tried to figure out what my role was in the break up. In other words, I'm no angel either. And then I cried and was angry, and then after a while I got over it. This is in regards to a divorce, so it wasn't just a fling or anything. And don't stay in the house being depressed. Go out with friends and develop your social life. That's a life saver. And don't jump into another relationship right away. Wait until you are not angry any more. But there is nothing wrong with an occasional booty call IMO.
yeah i just broke up with my boyfreind on wensady and i have a new boyfreind now anit to happy about it but stuff happeneds so i still wanted to be freinds with my X bf but then now as i hang out with him i feel my self falling for him again if u want s freind ship dont be like everyone eles saying i just want to be freinds ask him if he still wants to be freinds and tell him you do. let him down easly. like i told mine we acted like more like a couple when we were just freinds and didnt fight as much. well good luck , how to move on i go to ice cream lol but i justed packed up all his things basicly all are memriors while i did this played sad song and just had like one sad day and just moped around and then the next day just tryed to fouget and move on go to your freinds or ur dog. good luck bye
either find a ';rebound'; or suck it up and drive on, live like you never knew him....do your usual thing, and dont ';hate'; him.... the opposit of love is not hate , but ignorance...... if you hate him you are still giving him too much thought!!!!! love and hate are feelings , to fight a feeling give it no feeling, no thought, dont revenge..... trust me ... this will hurt him bad........
Well I try to go out with my friends, keep your mind on something else. AVOID romantic songs that Will make you think of the days you were an item. Go to the movies, shopping, read a book, just keep your mind busy that it wont give you time to think of him. As well think that things happen for a reason.He wasnt meant for you and theres always plenty of man out there that can make you happier. Good Luck

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