Monday, August 23, 2010

I'm an aries and became friends with a capricorn female. I need advice how to deal with capricorn women!?

We have been friends about 4 months. I liked her from the beginning, she was nice, and fun although at times it seemed like she was sort of in a diff.world. Anyway I approached her about a issue I was having with her behavior in a situation. A guy I became really good friends with in school (college) ended up dogging me out, and treating me like ****. Him and I were friends first and then it turned sexual, but we were able to keep the friendship separate. She only knew him through me, and only hung around him with me. After him and I fell out I felt like she started to flirt with him and want to be around him all the time. I found out they were talking behind my back although she's married %26amp; this is after him and I fell out. She claims the only reason she always asked me to call him was so that she could get high, but she knew how hard the aftermath was for me. She seen me cry, go through depression etc. She told me to stay away from him, but she kept wanting to go around him. Why?I'm an aries and became friends with a capricorn female. I need advice how to deal with capricorn women!?
You know what -we as Aries woman rarely , very rarely find friends who will treat us as we would treat them. We are the most loyal friends in the world and we give total respect to our friends , unfornatuely we dont always get it in return, i think thats why we are so independent. Im used to people letting me down, they have all my life. But im just gonna keep being me and shining and brightening up the world, which is what we are meant to do , we are the hereos of the zodiac. Just remember there are alot of haters and jealous people out there, you may think they are you friend, but their really not, and sometimes it can be really hard to tell, but the older you get the better you get at spotting posers(fake toxic so called friends) in your life. I know i have. But also dont stop being you, do you and do your best thats all you can do. Anyone who has negative comments for you and always puts you down is NOT your friend, just remember that!!! If someone doesnt care how you feel , they are NOT your friend , just remember that. REAL friends are extremely hard to find in this life.I'm an aries and became friends with a capricorn female. I need advice how to deal with capricorn women!?
YOU AND THE CAPRICORN WOMAN


Though she may not show it, this woman cares a great deal about love. Some women are content to leave love to fate, but Capricorn woman takes a hand in determining her own fate. She is discriminating in her choice of men, the least likely of all the zodiacal signs to fall in love at first sight. She has no time to waste in silly flirtation; love is a serious matter to her. If a man doesn't measure up, she wants him out of her way. If a man does interest her, she will observe him from an emotional distance before moving closer. She takes the time to get to know him and considers carefully the consequences of her involvement. Like all earth signs (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn), she has a deep-rooted sensuality that flowers only when she feels safe and secure.





To Capricorn woman, happiness in love is crucial. She wants someone who will cherish and understand her, who will not rob her of her self-sufficiency or ask her to relinquish control of her life and goals. But she is a realist and knows how hard he is to find.





She will not put her neck into any man's yoke. A Capricorn woman may appear shy or submissive, but she is like a rubber ball: You can push a dent into it, but the ball always springs back to its original shape. She is self-disciplined; she has a clear mind, a commonsense approach. She is a most womanly woman, a lady with ';class.'; Typical examples of Capricorn females are Marlene Dietrich, Maggie Smith, Ava Gardner, Faye Dunaway, Mary Tyler Moore鈥攁ll intensively feminine, yet with a reserve of inner strength.





If you have your mind set on winning a Capricorn beauty, you'd better prepare for a long siege, she is not easy to win. She expects to be pursued, wooed, put into the mood. No Don Juan can leap into her bed and leap out again. If a man lets the issue of sex become a contest of wills, he is a good bet to lose. In a head-to-head contest this woman could wear down a glacier.





She sometimes becomes involved with men who are younger than she is. One reason is that she wants to dominate in the male-female relationship. On a date, she will often try to dictate the terms. She'll pick the restaurant, the kind of entertainment, and arrange for tickets. If you begin living together, she will handle the division of household chores.





Capricorn women are not particularly lucky in love. Perhaps they demand too much, perhaps they're too involved with a career to inspire the kind of love and devotion they want, or perhaps the men they choose tend to be too inexperienced or naive. Whatever the reason, it's too bad because Capricorn women, in addition to their sexuality, have many practical virtues. They are loyal, dependable, excellent at handling money, canny about people. They are very helpful to a mate and will stand by him when the going is toughest. All a Capricorn woman asks in return is to share in the spoils when the battle is won.





Her passions run deep, and so does her impact. Long after transitory affairs have run their courses, this smoldering siren will hold her place in a man's affections. Cherish her, honor her, love her, respect her. She'll pay you back in the richest coin of the realm鈥攖he kind of loving relationship that lasts.
It sounds like she's not the best friend for you. You need someone with more life. Try finding a friend who's a Leo or a Gemini or a Libra. That should go better.
You are talking about a Cappy drug addict well sorry cant help you with that.
Sweetie that has nothing to do with her being a capricorn, and chances are she tells you to stay away from him because it was upsetting for you, but that doesn't mean she has to away because it wasn't her falling out and she still thinks of him as a friend.





But if you still believe it has something to do with her astrological sign find out where she was born and what time and year and stuff and then go to astro.com and put that stuff in, there will be a link on there that will allow you to read about her personality for the most part.
wow do you like yourself? i dont mean to say it so mean... but if some guy is being mean and your not mean to him, how can you even feel bad... he's just a jerk...


and the cap girl being a bad friend... well this one in particular is...


so much drama, i could never imagine being in your situation


you are too good for this
I'm an Aries as well and my sister is a Capricorn so i know exactly what your going through. My sister and I have never gotten along, Capricorns are very sneaky at times and they can hold a grudge like no other. If she is a real friend she would have cut him off just like you. If my best friend is through with a guy then so am I , of course I might say hi if I saw him on the street, but to call and have you call him is against the BFF code. Without a doubt!
I'm a capricorn, so these should be straight forward. We get moody, like when a guy's sensitive, enjoy icecream, not afraid to be loud, smart, big sense of humour. We also really like it when a guy's funny. It makes us attached. Also personality, if your a jerk, buh-bye! As for your problem, stay away from this guy... but don't worry, if this girl were smart, she'd stay away from him. If he treats you like crap, let him know. Be sensitive to feelings..... It's hot :P peace

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