Boy friend advice how to anwser to this text.?

So me and my bf have been acting liek idc twards each other.


And today i saw a picture of him with his hand around his ex.. and we are supposed to hang out because i ahvent seen him in a whole week when he lives 5 minutes away from me. and he texted me saying Are we doing anything or no.?





would it be rude to be like Why dont u make plans with ____ that girl?


what can i say to kinda get him thinking.. because i dont wanna see him.. i cant have him treat me like that.Boy friend advice how to anwser to this text.?
umm the only thing that needs to be said is we are done he shouldnt be hanging out with his ex like that behind ur back and yeah sure it was ';innocent'; but if he really didnt have anything to hide he would of told you in the first placeBoy friend advice how to anwser to this text.?
Thats the childish way to respond to his question. Its not going to answer the question of why he is in the pic with his arm around the ex. Maybe its innocent. maybe its not. By answering the way you want to might just lead his next response to, 'maybe i will'. then what will you say? you will be angry with yourself. you have to think first. Ask yourself, do i really want him to go make plans with her? if not, then i dont suggest you put it to him like that. Maybe you guys can hang out and let him know that you saw the picture and it bothered you. tell him that you want to know what it was all about. thats the way to get him thinking. By asking questions and making suggestions to things that you really want to know.
Personally, I think you should go and hang out with him. While hanging out bring up the fact you saw the picture...





That way you can see his face and if he is lying then you will know. Unless he is a great liar. But I definitely think you should hang out with him because texting him is awkward...


Good luck!
no it wouldnt be rude, if ur really pissed about it then go for it


or u can just say ';well do u want to?';


see wut he replies...and if hes not treating u like u deserve then meet up with him today and tell him u guys should take a break or sumthing


trust me, theres a lot of guys out there who will treat u better hun :D


good luck! :D
1. are you doing anything yes or no?


2. you seem to be doing something


3. oh, you still remember me, cause you seem preoccupied


or 4. confront him and whatever happens happens





plus. It wouldn't be rude, what's rude is the fact he's taking pics with his ex insted of being with you
Such a stinker! He obviously does not know how to treat you at all! And he really does not care about you either I am guessing. Why waste your time?


Tell him.. I am not wasting my precious self on you anymore. Go do something with your ex. Adios amigo!


Boys take girls for granted when you forgive him all the time.. he thinks your are desperate for him and that gets boring for a guy. They like girls that know what they want and demand respect!
He might not be cheating on you. He could just be hanging out. Before you jump to conclusion get all the facts. If you do find out he's cheating though you could tell him. ';Nah I'm too busy tonight. Why don't you ask your ex out sence you seem to be so buddy buddy with her.';
i think you should be mad at him. don't treat him so lightly. i think he's making sure that your busy.





but find out if the source and the picture is recent. and if it is then you already know what to do.
You don't know the whole story, maybe its was a bad angle of the pic, or it was just a friendly hug type of deal that only lasted a few seconds. I would hangout with him, and ask him about it. Just ask him straight up and show him the pic. Best of luck!
I hate when this stuff happens to me but you should question him about your relationship like do u really care for me and if he says yes say then why do u have a pic of your ex. Sometimes u need to just flat out say what you wanna say.
Tell him that you saw the picture and ask him about it. If you still want to be with him, the best thing to do is talk to him. If you don't, don't bother responding.
Why don't you say No to the text for now. See him for a while and see if he acts all different around you. Then if you think it doesn't feel right, ask him what he has been doing to this girl and stufff?
i think u shud be soo cool about it... if u say that its gonna be like u care so much and it got to u so much.. if i were u id say u have plans with one of ur friends already... and ull see him soon.


dont overreact, shes his ex for a reason....


good luck!


xo


meds
Ex girlfriends are almost always the sign to leave. I'm so sorry, you might have been his rebound. Leave him before you look like the fool, and he ends up playing you. I wish I did......
if u dont want to be with him then just say i saw u with ur ex y dont u hang out with her were done im going to go hang out with my new bf





that will make him jealous and that will make him mad hope this helps
i'd think that's a pretty bitchy move, don't trust him?





if you don't want to see him... tell him.





i hate people who play games.
no what you said is good. be sassy to this a**.





best of luck!





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Perfect opportunity to not send anything back at all. Silence and unknowing is the worst!!! Just say nothing and wait to see him grovel!
oh stop acting dumb and hang out with the dude or he will go make plans to ___ that girl
just be like uh yeah long as you didnt bring your other girl friend.
What a little jerk!!! Tell him that if he wants to hang out with his ex then were over!! U shud dump that bastard!!!!! U deserve better!!
that's exactly what i would say but add in ';I saw the pic of you 2, so whats up with that?';
Go ahead. You should say that.
just hang out with him and mention it near the end of you litle date
ask him that and if he asks who, say ur ex
its not rude. i do it.


but like. if thee dude is sensitive, itll hurt him.


if he isnt;; he'll take it as a joke
do it! if he really cares he wont and will hang out with u!! trust me you don't deserve it
One of the healthiest things you can do is not put a lot of strong emotions into this. Have more fun and enjoy the relationship b/c that's what this is supposed to be- fun. No one wants to feel like their relationship is work. Don't email him with that question you wrote up there b/c then you'll look like a jealous bitchy gf which will make him like you even less and even tho it's his fault, you'll end up looking like the bad guy in the whole situation. Just try to make this more fun. If you do hang out today, enjoy that time and make it as good as possible so that he WANTS to hang out more with you and then he won't want to hang out w/ his ex. Show him why his time with you is better than any time he could have spent with anyone else.