My guy best friend has been dating this girl who doesnt appreciate him at all. She makes fun of his serious problems and doesnt like any of his friends. He tells me all the time that he loves her and he doesnt care how she acts because he can change her. They have known each other for three months at the most. They have had sex and he was her first. Right now they are ';on a break'; because he was talking to another friend who needed his advice on a problem she was having and because he has been in that situation he was helping her out. well after they were done talking and got up to leave the girl kissed him and my best friend pushed her away and told her he had a gf but the girl he was dating wouldnt listen to his side of the story so told him they needed a break. Here is my problem: she doesnt deserve him at all, he is a great guy and she doesnt see that, he asks me how i feel about the relationship and i told him that she wasnt worth his time but he doesnt care, he would rather take the blame and say that he cheated and apologize a ridculous amount of time over it and i cant take it anymore. i cant see him put himself through that, how would you handle this?Okay, I need some serious advice how to handle this....?
I have watched so many spanish soap operas, its not even funny, but they kind of teach you a lesson about relationships. In one there is this woman who says ';A man only looks through the eyes of the woman he loves'; meaning love is blind. What you have to do now is just tell him how you feel, which you already did. Now its time for to accept the fact that this guy and his girlfriend are never going to change. Start focusing on yourself and try to become better than the people around you. Learn from other people and make sure you don't fall in the same puddle of problems.
~Good luck.Okay, I need some serious advice how to handle this....?
Tell him what you feel, but remember a man in love is the stupidest kind of man. He probably wont listen to you. all you can do after that is be there when she rips his heart out and give him a shoulder to cry on.
from experience i can tell you this:
when a guy is in love the only way to snap him out of it is to prove to him that she wont change.
Can you condense? You lost me at okay lol..................seriously way too much words.
its too long, can I get sparknotes?
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