I need help getting my mind off of wanting a baby. I have been around babies lately due to the fact all of my friends are having them its crazy. But with that aside, its not them thats making me want one. I have always wanted to have a baby in my early twenties, the parting, clubbing, barhoping stage in my life is non exhistent and will never be in my life becasue im not that type of person. I have always wanted a baby in my twenties becasue in your thirties you will be 48-50 years old when your child graduates high school and i do not want that! I love my life, in college (online, at home) no hobbies, occasion scrapbooking, reading, and taking photos. I need help, my boyfrend and i have been together for always three years. We've lived together for a year and a half in our own place. I need some help when i held that baby i had to have one of my own, i know whats available in my state to help mothers, and im aware of it all! Its a big responsibility and i want it so badly. What do i do to get my mind off of it? Or how to get my boyfriend to want one too. He is too busy playing video games and sitting on his butt, to me hes wasting life, when we could be putting it to good use. We plan to get married and be together forever...i dont know!
I do not want ny negative responces im in kind of a depression right now with all of this. I want to be pregnant, to be a mommy!A little advice, how to get my mind off the topic...?
Well, I know exactly how you feel. My dh plays a lot of video games too, when I think we could be doing something more useful. I have been ttc for 2 years. To get my mind off ttc, I will get off the computer and watch a movie that doesn't involve babies, do scrapbooking, go cook something good, go shopping for something that I probably won't fit into if I would get pregnant, take long walks and just hang out with my husband when I can get him off the computer. What I meant by getting off the computer is to stay out of the ttc section. I have cried and cried, because I just don't understand why I can't be a mommy, when I want to so bad. Good luck to you and hope we both get to be mommies.A little advice, how to get my mind off the topic...?
I know what you mean. My hubby and I tried for 10years. I was 28 when I had my baby girl. Now we really want another. 2 years and still counting on this one. I cry when I'm watching shows with babies or hear that something has happened to one. My hubby is also a big gamer. I know the feeling. I was at the point a few times that I believed he didn't want another child. Then he always pulls something out his butt to show me he still don't want to give up. Have you talked to your partner about how you feel? If not start talking to him. Its very hard to put your mind somewhere else when you want one so badly. Here's what I do. Take a weekend trip or day outing. Nothing that cost a lot. We go camping for our brakes. Read a book. Find a hobby that you like. A plus is to find something you both like. I wish you the best of luck.
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